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10 Great Reasons To Masturbate

Self love is OK.

“Don’t knock masturbation…it’s sex with someone I love.” -Woody Allen

1. It keeps you in touch with yourself.

Men and women who masturbate on a regular basis understand the rhythms of their bodies better than those who don’t. This can help you build up sexual stamina for when you’re with a partner, avoid premature orgasms, and be able to keep yourself satisfied longer.

2. Orgasming before a date relieves pressure.
For some men, going on a date can be stressful and/or sexually frustrating. Rubbing one out prior to leaving home can leave you with a clearer mind and better focus on the activities themselves, rather than fantasizing about your date the whole time.

3. It can relieve menstrual cramps.
For many women, the contractions involved in cumming can be a big help in getting rid of cramps. It also helps you focus on the pleasure your body can bring in that area, and put you in a healthier frame of mind. Or, if you’re like me and don’t have pain during your period, it can just aid in ending the bleeding sooner.

4. Natural sleep enhancer.
When you orgasm, your blood pressure lowers, breathing deepens, muscle tension decreases, and dopamine/endorphins flood your body. This creates a nice relaxed state for both sexes to easily fall asleep in.

5. If you don’t use it, you lose it.
Sad, but ultimately true. Orgasms, whether attained with a partner or alone, raise the levels of nitric oxide in the bloodstream. This chemical is necessary for proper lubrication in women and erection in both sexes. The less time you spend with your sexual side, the less nitric oxide you have available to use…and the harder it is to get in a physically aroused state. There’s a reason people in relationships masturbate more than loners!

6. Orgasms keep the plumbing clean.
Regular use of your genitals can lead to better health later on. For both sexes, orgasms mean better blood flow, fresher sexual scent, and prevention of blockages in the prostate gland in men and skene glands in women. Is your health worth the 10 minutes it takes to cum?

7. It can relieve blue balls/labia.
It’s not as spoken about from the female side, but both men and women can become so physically aroused that if orgasm isn’t reached the entire genital area becomes a point of agony. Trust me on this…it’s bad. This is caused by blood remaining in an area for too long, creating intense pressure, pain, pelvic aches, slight discoloration of the scrotum or labia, and in severe cases can even make walking difficult/painful. The only way to stop this from occurring (or curing it) is to climax and allow the blood to flow normally again.

8. You’ll be healthier overall.
It’s probably not a surprise at this point, but people who freely masturbate have fewer hangups about cumming solo than those who are raised to believe it’s somehow bad to touch your own body. This means they obsess about masturbation less, and feel no guilt over doing it. It’s also been shown that frequent orgasms can improve your immune system, increase the health of your cardiovascular self, and alleviate some symptoms of depression. Orgasms: They’re good for what ails ya.

9. Face it: You don’t always have a partner.
Whether you are completely single, are in a long distance relationship, or are with a partner who’s libido is smaller than yours…it’s time to acknowledge that you can’t always get sex when you want it. I know how it is to be “ready to go” when your sex partner isn’t feeling up to it. It sucks, but what are you gonna do? Answer: Take matters into your own hand! This helps to relieve you sexually, and your mate from feeling guilty. Remember that resentment isn’t sexy.
*Note: if your partner consistently begs off from sex of any kind without an adequate reason/explanation, it’s probably time to see a counselor or have a serious heart-to-heart talk.*

10. It’s fun.

With all the toys, porn, sexual education movies, and erotica out there to choose from, is it any wonder that people choose to masturbate more? It can give you fresh ideas to try with a partner, or allow you to live out entire complex fantasies in your head. That, and if you’ve ever had a orgasm, you know just how amazing and nigh indescribable an experience it is. Why not give yourself a treat everyday? You deserve it!

Why Buy Sex Toys?

Pleasure

In a society where sexual pleasure and guilt are associated, it's not surprising that sex toys have gotten a bad rap just for being themselves. It goes without saying that sex toys are best enjoyed with no guilt attached. They require no justification; sex toys are pleasure for pleasure's sake. They offer us a unique opportunity to explore our bodies in new and exciting ways. You'll no doubt discover more about sexual desire and probably discover a few new erogenous zones as well. Sex toys are simply a gateway to pleasure.

Fantasy

For those of us in monogamous relationships, it's often difficult to explore our sexual fantasies. Being faithful is more important than living out your deepest desires. Toys give us the opportunity to indulge our fantasies in a completely safe environment. In this sense, sex toys can be an extremely helpful addition to any loving relationship. It's nearly impossible for one person to satisfy every facet of another's desire. Sex toys can help by providing a new element to your sexual ritual without the complications of the actual realization of your fantasies.

Inspiration

An uninspired performance in the bedroom can be a real strain on your relationship. With the daily stresses of life, sex can often take a back seat to more pressing matters. Whether it's families or careers, our lives are busier than ever and intimacy often feels the squeeze. So why not introduce something a little risqué to the proceedings? Sex toys give couples a chance to explore each other and have a light-hearted laugh along the way. Adult toys are a wonderful way to spice up your sex life.

Sexual Health

Sex toys are good for you! There are some interesting and well-documented health benefits associated with the use of sex toys.

During menopause, most women experience some thinning of the vaginal wall. Studies indicate that the regular use of a dildo can help maintain vaginal tone.

Women who have trouble reaching orgasm can also benefit from the use of sex toys. Many leading experts on the subject recommend the use of a vibrator to help overcome orgasmic difficulty.

Common Myths

Myth #1: My partner wants to use sex toys. I must be sexually inadequate.

Whenever buying (or considering buying) a sex toy, it's a good idea to consider the feelings of your partner. Discussing sex toys with your partner before introducing them into your sex lives is not only respectful, but in many cases quite necessary. Many people assume that sex toys are purchased to fulfill some sort of sexual inadequacy. This is most often not the case. Discuss your reasons for buying a sex toy with your partner; it's usually necessary to prevent any hurt feelings.

Most people buy sex toys because they're an enjoyable way to explore new possibilities. It's fun to explore sexual potential whether alone or with a partner.

Myth #2: I'll get addicted to sex toys and won't be able to reach orgasm without them.

There's a very human propensity to become familiar with a particular form of stimulation. Whether it's cunnilingus from your partner, or vaginal penetration from your dildo, there are some forms of stimulation you count on to get you off. You can become addicted to your vibrator just as easily as you become addicted to a particular practice with your partner. It can happen, but you are not helpless to control and change it. Experiment with new positions, new toys, and new activities. Keep trying new things and you'll never be sexually dependent on any one particular practice.

Myth #3: Using a vibrator will cause damage to my genitals.

There's absolutely no physiological basis for such an argument. Vibrators can occasionally make genitals feel numb during or immediately after use but the sensitivity will always return. Experiment with different forms of stimulation during sex play to decrease any numbing effects.

You can pick up your passion prop at your local sex shop. Or, if you want to be a little more private about your purchase, you'll find plenty of well-stocked online boutiques (like pinktrickle.com ) that list items with pictures, descriptions, and specifics about cleaning and storage. 

Some playthings pointers: Read the instructions before using. Avoid materials that may give you an allergic reaction (e.g., latex), and wash your toy with antibacterial soap and hot water before and after use and let it dry completely. If your carnal contraption is made of a porous substance (like jelly rubber or cyberskin, which are harder to clean than nonporous products like silicone), or you want to use your toy vaginally after using it for anal action, cover it with a condom each time it's used to make sure it's clean.

You can find an excellent selection of brand name sex toys, bondage and fetish and other erotic products @ pinktrickle.com

Sex Toys: Care and Cleaning

After you’ve recovered from post-coital bliss, what’s the first thing you do?

Get washed up, right? Do you clean your sex toys, too?

Just like your real-live partner, hygiene is important in ensuring safe sex with your sex toy.  Plus, cleanliness will help keep your sex toy in working order for a longer time.

First of all, get to know B.O.B.,  your Battery (or otherwise) Operated Boyfriend. Get to know what it’s made of. This will be a big help in determining how to take care of it.

Stainless steel, Pyrex and glass toys have the most cleaning options. You can give them a good scrubbing with sex toy cleaner or fragrance-free anti-bacterial soap. You can even boil them in water or put them in the dishwasher. Pat them dry with a towel or let them air dry before storing them. Zipper-lock bags help ensure that they (and all sex toys) remain clean between uses.

Silicone toys can easily be cleaned with a sex toy cleaner or anti-bacterial soap. Some say that you can boil silicone toys, but others argue that boiling can deteriorate silicone. It’s best to stick with a hand wash.

Jelly, soft vinyl, rubber, latex and hard plastic toys need an extra good scrubbing with a sex toy cleaner or anti-bacterial soap. Since they’re made of porous materials, make extra sure that you rinse thoroughly. Soap residue can deteriorate these materials and could cause irritation to mucous membranes.

The same cleaning routine goes for cyberskin toys, which are also porous. Some people recommend giving them a light dusting of corn starch after they’re dry to keep them from getting sticky.

Using a condom on a sex toy, especially if it’s made of a porous material or if it’s an anal toy, will help keep it clean and last for a longer time.

The type of lube you use is another consideration in cleaning your sex toy. Water-based lubes wash off easily in water, but silicone lubes, since they’re made to last, will require an extra scrubbing. Oil-based lubes aren’t recommended for sex toys. Plus, they’re a bugger to wash away.

Be sure to take the batteries out of your sex toys before giving them a scrubbing or a soak. Leave them out of your sex toy until you’re ready to use it again to get the most out of your battery life.

If you have any tears or cracks in your sex toys, throw them out. You never know what kinds of bacteria can breed in them. Plus, you don’t want to risk any tearing or abrasions of your skin and tissue.

Also, don’t forget to give your sex toy a quick wash before you get busy with it!

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10 Health Benefits Of Masturbation For Men

By Ipshita Kumar

How do you like your ‘me-time’? Do you like to fly solo? Yes, we’re talking about good old masturbation.

And however you do it (or don’t do it), there is nothing wrong with taking some time to pleasure yourself, getting to know your body, and exploring what turns you on. And just as taking a shower should be a regular occurrence, so too should be cleaning your pipes, as the health benefits of masturbation are galore. 

Here are the 10 reasons why you should take matters into your own hands right now:

Manages Premature Ejaculation

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Sex therapists across the globe have found that men who experience premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse can benefit from masturbation about 2 hours before sex. This enables them to have a longer duration of intercourse before another ejaculation comes on.

Prevents Prostate Cancer

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A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system.

Makes You Harder

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With age, you naturally lose muscle tone…even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. It keeps the angle of your dangle perky. You must aim to (well!) arrive three to five times a week for rock-solid results.

Improves Sperm Motility

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Some studies found that masturbation improves some quality and motility. “Theoretically, a man masturbating before intercourse releases the residual sperms in the semen transporting tubules. This paves way for new ‘better’ sperms which are released during the sexual act and increase the chances of conception, which can add to your health benefits,” says Dr Mahesh Nawal, an Indore-based sexologist and President of ASECT.

Helps You Last Longer

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Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Dr Nawal. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. Practice makes perfect, right?

Reduces Nasal Congestion

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Another small study demonstrated reduction of swelling of vessels in the nose during sex and masturbation. This theoretically may improve on symptoms of the common cold, hay fever, allergic rhinitis and other such health-related ailments.

Manages Stress And Depression

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Masturbation has been used in the management of stress, as it results in release of feel-good hormones, called oxytocin, in the body. It has also been found useful in dealing with depression.

Ups Your Immunity

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Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Dr Ashish Sabberwal, senior consultant of urology, Fortis Escorts Institute, New Delhi. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. “Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,” Dr Sabberwal says.

Boosts Your Mood

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Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available, and benefits your health in more than one way.

Prevents Pregnancy And STDs

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Last but not the least, this one is for both you and your girl! For couples not intending to get the girl pregnant, masturbation is a safe way of attaining sexual satisfaction without vaginal penetration which would otherwise lead to an unintended pregnancy. If the man’s penis is rubbed around the vulva and spills sperms there, there could be a chance of getting pregnant. Masturbation poses no risk of contracting an STD. However, mutual masturbation may however result in exchange of sexual fluids when partners touch each other’s genitals, says Dr Nawal.

As a last note, masturbation will not put hair on your palms, make you go blind, kill a kitten, cause infertility, or make you turn gay! What it rather does is allow you to understand your body better, help you to release tension and pursue sexual pleasure on your own, provide an option for a safer sex activity with partners, and let you explore your own fantasies. As the saying goes, who can really love you more than yourself?

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How to find the right sex toy

'I want to start using sex toys – help!'

As one female reader asks how to spice up her sex life using sex toys, Dr Petra Boynton offers the low down on what sorts of toys are available, where to buy and what's appropriate for you.

I want to surprise my boyfriend perhaps by buying a vibrator. What’s the best way to do this? I’ve never used one before.

I suspect I’m not alone in imagining the scene when you surprise him with a vibrator. Leaving good-natured humour aside, let’s focus on what might suit you both.

What does he want?

Frequently we’re led to believe from sex advice books or articles that everyone loves sex so there’s no need for clarification, leading to the unhelpful stereotype all men like anything sexual they’re offered, and will never have questions or concerns. If he’s already mentioned liking toys it’s still worth having a conversation. If this isn’t something you’ve ever discussed or you’re even sure he wants to do, don’t assume without asking.

He may have some anxieties – it’s not unusual for partners to worry that they would be replaced or feel intimidated by a vibrator. The resources linked to below might reassure him here. Alternatively he may be very keen, or perhaps not bothered either way.

What about you?

You say you’ve not used a vibrator before. It might be this is something you’ve always wanted to try or feel will be a big turn on for you. You might want to explore using a toy alone before introducing the idea to your boyfriend. Sometimes we feel pressure from the media and sex product manufacturers that if we’re not having frequent sex with a box full of gadgets by the bed then we’re boring or deficient. Be certain, before you offer to buy and use a toy, this is something that appeals to you both.

If it turns out he’s as keen as you then it won’t be a complete surprise if you get a toy, but you can still control how and when you show him to add elements of suspense or anticipation if desired.

Thinking about toys

Considering toys can be helpful because it involves you focusing on:

• communication
• identifying your wants and desires and articulating those
• hearing and responding to your partners wishes
• exploring together what feels good
• being mindful you have the right to change your mind at any time

It’s also an opportunity to consider other things you’ve perhaps wanted to do (which don’t have to just involve genital stimulation). As well asenhancing other areas of your relationship.

You’ve used the word ‘vibrator’ but people can often use this to mean other ‘sex toys’. Some sex toys aren’t designed for genital use at all but may stimulate other body parts and can be used for pleasure, pain or restraint. On reflection you both may desire something not for genital play. Or may be for genital stimulation but not be a vibrator.

How do you want to use your toy?

Below are links to a number of thoughtful resources by Cory Silverberg that will he you identify if you want a toy to use:

• on yourself while he watches or holds you?
• on him?
• alongside intercourse, or that both of you can share/swap?
• in bed, or somewhere else? Do you need a toy that’s waterproof (for use in the bath or shower)?

Where to buy

You can buy sex toys online or in adult stores. Some pharmacies sell a limited range of products. The quality of products and sales advice can vary. It’s okay to shop around both the outlets that sell toys as well as considering different toys to suit your needs before you make a final purchase. Looking for toys together and discussing this might be a turn on in itself.

Other things to think about

Accessibility

Not everyone finds toys easy to use – particularly if there are problems with mobility or chronic pain. Often sex toy guides don’t focus on diverse genitals. This resource explains how to adapt toys to your individual needs.

Lubricant

Toys can be very enjoyable but if you are using them in or around your genitals or bum using a lubricant is important to avoid discomfort. Check you pick a lubricant that’s suitable for use with your toy.

Hygiene

Remember you will need to keep your toys clean, and if you’re swapping between your or his bum and your genitals then you potentially can spread bugs. Using different toys for anal and other stimulation is a good idea, or covering phallic shaped toys with condoms if swapping between holes or using with other people. More on hygiene here

What next?

You’ve several choices, so having talked about toys you might decide they are something you:

• keep as fantasy but don’t try in practice
• use toys, but on yourself/alone rather than with each other
• use together, in front of or on/in each other

You might find toys become an integral part of your sexual life, particularly if involved with fantasy or role-play. They could be an occasional treat. Or a product that ends up discarded at the back of your sock drawer. You might have to shop around to find the right toy for you.

The decision is both of yours to make.

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A Hundred Orgasms A Day - Extraordinary People

I just watched that whole thing...Now I'm going to go have a few of my own, hello, vibrator!

Orgasms For Your Health

Did you know just how healthy your orgasm really is?

Since this month is both ‘Womens Health’ and ‘Masturbation’ month, we thought it would be a great time to list just how healthy the female orgasm really is. 

Check out our top 5 reasons on why your orgasm is amazing for your health, whether you go solo or with a partner!

1. Better sleep and less stress Giving yourself the bliss of an orgasm before bedtime, doesn’t just create waves of pleasure for you (and your partner), it also tells your cozy-feeling hormones (namely endorphins) to come out and release their sedative effect.

2. Pain relief and migraine cures Orgasms’ good vibrations release ‘analgesia’ in your body; a natural pain suppressant. The most natural way for a women to reduce any body aches or pains is through the automatic relief of the female orgasm.

3. Stay in shape, protect your heart and connect with your partner The ‘oxytocin’ flush brought on by an orgasm not only reduces stress and lowers blood pressure levels, it also increases empathy and communication. Your orgasm is a sexy way to burn calories, keep your heart happy and improve your relationship.

4. Naturally fight infections, cold and flu Have an “O” and those cold and flu bugs get up and go. Well not quite, but a woman's orgasm does have the power to reduce the risks of pesky colds and flu by up to 20%.

5. Look younger with healthier skin The sexiest way to feel great, and look 10 years younger, is to make love three times a week (or more!) with someone you feel amazing about! During orgasm the ADHE level increases which also enhances healthy skin.

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Myths About Masturbation

The history of masturbation contains many bizarre and hard to belief moments of misinformation. Whether it causes blindness, insanity, acne, or hair growth, masturbation has been both the most reviled and most commonly practiced sexual behavior on the planet. To this day many of us are raised believing certain myths about masturbation. If you’re still trying to separate fact and fiction consider these common myths and the facts that debunk them.

Masturbation Is For the Young

In fact, masturbation is a life long sexual activity. Surveys regularly show that anywhere from 70 to 95% of adult men and women masturbate. And while this may slow down as we age, many of us continue masturbating into our golden years. One survey of 800 adults over 60 found that that 46% of them masturbated, another found that 20% of seniors masturbated once a week or more. Masturbation isn’t just for the young, nor is it an “immature” form of sexual behavior.

Masturbation Isn't "Real Sex"

Masturbation is real sex. When you masturbate you can get really aroused, which can result in very real orgasms. In North America, we put values on different sexual behaviors, but this has no basis in science. From a health perspective, masturbation is as “real” a sexual behavior as intercourse, oral sex, or kissing. And research shows that people in relationships masturbate, which contradicts the myth that masturbation is only for loners.

Masturbation Is Bad For Your Health

This myth originated with an anti-masturbation tract that was written in 1712 as a way to sell a bogus “tonic” that was supposed to stop the disease of “self-pollution”. Through the years there have been many colorful attempts to pathologize masturbation. They say it will make you go blind, it will give you acne, and it will grow hair on your palms. All claims that have been refuted by science. Today virtually all physicians and scholars agree that masturbation is harmless.

Men Have to Masturbate, Women Don't

While most statistics show that men do masturbate more than women, there is no evidence to suggest this is due to some biological “need” on the part of men to masturbate. What is true is that social attitudes toward female masturbation are much more negative, and this likely impacts both women’s early masturbation and their willingness to report masturbating in a survey. There is no research to suggest that the desire to masturbate is tied to biological sex or even gender.

People In Relationships Don't Masturbate

This common myth often drives people in relationships to masturbate in private hiding it from their partners. Survey research shows that people of all ages masturbate when they are in relationships. Kinsey’s survey found that almost 40% of men and 30% of women in relationships masturbated. A study of Playboy readers found that 72% of married men masturbated, and a study of Redbook readers found that 68% of married women masturbated.

Too Much Masturbation Is Bad For You

With very rare exceptions, frequent masturbation is not harmful. If an individual is compulsively masturbating or is unable to engage in any sexual behavior other than masturbation (and would like to), it is possible that there may be reason to consult a mental health professional. But masturbating, whether it is once a month, or three times a day, if it is part of a balanced sexual and social life, poses no specific risks.

Only Certain Kinds of People Masturbate

Survey research debunks this myth that only certain people masturbate. Whether you are 19 or 99, religious and conservative or secular and liberal, whether you are a parent, grandparent, uncle or aunt, whether you get around on your own two legs or use a wheelchair, scooter, crutches, or roller-skates to get around, almost everyone has masturbated at some point in their lives, and most of us continue to do so.

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Some Documented Health Benefits Of Masturbation:

Health Benefits for Men

— Improving his immune system’s functioning.

— Building his resistance to prostate gland infection.

— Making for a healthier prostate.

Health Benefits for Women

— Building her resistance to yeast infections.

— Combating pre-menstrual tension and other physical conditions associated with their menstrual cycles, like cramps.

— Relieving painful menstruation by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region. This will also reduce pelvic cramping and related backaches.

— Relieving chronic back pain and increasing her threshold for pain.

Health Benefits for Both Sexes

— The safest kind of sex, keeping you free of sexually transmitted infections.

— A great form of stress relief.

— A mood booster in releasing endorphins.

— A natural sleep sedative.

— A mechanism for building stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to better sex.

— A natural energetic pick-me-up.

For couples who masturbate on occasion or regularly, sex with yourself can:

— Be empowering, especially by helping you to feel better about your body, genitals and sexual response.

— Deliver some of your most intense orgasms ever, which you’ll now know how to recreate with that special someone!

— Increase your sexual awareness, giving you the opportunity to discover what turns you on – the sensations and movements that work best to give you the greatest of sexual gratification.

— Have the potential to enhance your sex life in general, boosting your sexual confidence and turning you into a better lover.

— Get you or your partner off the hook if neither is available or not in the mood.

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Shades Of Kink - What's Your Take?

Shades Of Kink - What's Your Take?

by pinktrickle

Fifty Shades of Kink now sweeping the nation.

By now a good portion of the female population, and some males, globally has read one, if not all of the "Fifty Shades Of Grey" novels.


Are you one of them?

If so, how much has it affected your sex life?

Has it opened your eyes to some new bondage fantasies?

And would you/have you acted on those fantasies?

Please leave your answers below.

Vibrators 101: What to know about everyone's favorite sex toy.

Vibrators 101: What to know about everyone's favorite sex toy.

Some are called rabbits. Others? Elephants. There are plenty of words to describe the battery-powered pleasure centers that are tucked in bedside drawers everywhere, but they're best known by one word: vibrators.

Every woman should have a vibrator handy, but sadly such is not the case. Perhaps it's a lack of knowledge about the power—literally and figuratively—of these sex toys. To catch everyone up to speed, we've assembled five things that every woman needs to know about her should-be best friend.

1. Vibrators are good for you. Sure, they help you orgasm without requiring the pesky presence of a male, but "good for you" also relates to health. Studies have shown that women who use vibrators are more likely to have had their annual gynecological exam than women who don't use them. So, essentially, as you're giving yourself the gift of clitoral stimulation, you're also more mindful of your vaginal health. That's a win-win in our book.

2. Dudes don't hate them. Contrary to popular belief, vibrators don't intimidate men. Maybe not every guy will be showering his girlfriend with gift-wrapped Pink Elephants, but studies show that overall men are A-OK with women using vibrators. In fact, many agree they are a healthy part of a woman's sex life.

3. You've got to believe! Having confidence in the power of your battery-powered friend can do wonders. In one research study, women who had positive beliefs regarding their vibrators—and had used them within the previous 30 days—reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction. That means more arousal, lubrication and better orgasms.

4. They can get dirty. No, we aren't talking the kinky kind of dirty; we're talking the "need to be cleaned" kind. Think about where that vibrator has been and then think about the last time you gave it a good wipe down. Sorry if we're grossing you out, it's just the truth, ladies. There is such a thing as sex toy cleaner, but for those of us not looking for high-end help, soap will do just fine. In general, just wet a cloth with warm, soapy water and wipe off your toy (just avoid the battery compartment and control area).

5. They have a shelf life. A nice, expensive vibrator will last you a good, long while—but not forever. The cheaper ones will last for about one year if used semi regularly. And, if a vibe is made with a jelly or rubber, it absolutely must be tossed after one year, no matter how much it cost. Such materials harbor bacteria so keeping them longer than a year is bad news for lady parts. The good news is that more high-end vibrators often come with warranties, so if something breaks (perhaps from overuse?) replacement is possible.

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Pipedream Fantasy Glide Sex Machine - Demo Video

Pipedream Fantasy Glide Sex Machine,  Demo Video

Fantasy Glide is much more versatile than you might think. "The demonstration video gives you a visual test-run before you buy. 

You'll see the different ways it can be used, alone or as a couple, and lots of really hot footage on top of it.

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