Sex Toys: Care and Cleaning

After you’ve recovered from post-coital bliss, what’s the first thing you do?

Get washed up, right? Do you clean your sex toys, too?

Just like your real-live partner, hygiene is important in ensuring safe sex with your sex toy.  Plus, cleanliness will help keep your sex toy in working order for a longer time.

First of all, get to know B.O.B.,  your Battery (or otherwise) Operated Boyfriend. Get to know what it’s made of. This will be a big help in determining how to take care of it.

Stainless steel, Pyrex and glass toys have the most cleaning options. You can give them a good scrubbing with sex toy cleaner or fragrance-free anti-bacterial soap. You can even boil them in water or put them in the dishwasher. Pat them dry with a towel or let them air dry before storing them. Zipper-lock bags help ensure that they (and all sex toys) remain clean between uses.

Silicone toys can easily be cleaned with a sex toy cleaner or anti-bacterial soap. Some say that you can boil silicone toys, but others argue that boiling can deteriorate silicone. It’s best to stick with a hand wash.

Jelly, soft vinyl, rubber, latex and hard plastic toys need an extra good scrubbing with a sex toy cleaner or anti-bacterial soap. Since they’re made of porous materials, make extra sure that you rinse thoroughly. Soap residue can deteriorate these materials and could cause irritation to mucous membranes.

The same cleaning routine goes for cyberskin toys, which are also porous. Some people recommend giving them a light dusting of corn starch after they’re dry to keep them from getting sticky.

Using a condom on a sex toy, especially if it’s made of a porous material or if it’s an anal toy, will help keep it clean and last for a longer time.

The type of lube you use is another consideration in cleaning your sex toy. Water-based lubes wash off easily in water, but silicone lubes, since they’re made to last, will require an extra scrubbing. Oil-based lubes aren’t recommended for sex toys. Plus, they’re a bugger to wash away.

Be sure to take the batteries out of your sex toys before giving them a scrubbing or a soak. Leave them out of your sex toy until you’re ready to use it again to get the most out of your battery life.

If you have any tears or cracks in your sex toys, throw them out. You never know what kinds of bacteria can breed in them. Plus, you don’t want to risk any tearing or abrasions of your skin and tissue.

Also, don’t forget to give your sex toy a quick wash before you get busy with it!

How To Buy Her A Sex Toy

Silicon, rubber, metal, or glass

You don’t want to go overboard with the first sex toy; keep this one simple, subtle and functional. Silicon and rubber have the most life-like feel to them and are always a good choice. They are also very safe, and warm up under a hot tap easily.

Metal is a bad choice because it is quite cold to start off with, though its firmness may be the selling point. Metal can look quite attractive too, and since sex toys aren’t the most gorgeous things on earth, it’s a plus if they’re not ugly.There are some very beautiful glass dildos available. Glass offers a very smooth sensation, and can be cooled or heated to give her some variety. Opting for the "Joe-blow average" toy is your best bet. Stick to the basics. If in doubt, go with silicon. Silicon is neither too soft nor too hard and is durable and hygienic, making it an excellent choice for sex toys. 

Quality vs. cost

Don’t scrimp and save on this toy because you want quality. Having a toy not work or fall to bits at the crucial moment is going to make you look like a cheapie — a mortal sin in chick-talk! 

Presenting it to her

There are a number of ways to do this. If you want it to be a surprise gift, the classiest thing you can do is have it wrapped and posted straight to her with a sexy note. If you want to use it with her, you could put it under the pillow and give it to her on the spur of the moment, though this approach could have negative consequences if, for some reason, she has a problem with your purchase.  If you have any doubt about the reception you will receive, opt for the safety of the shore: Warn her, and give it to her in a non-sexual situation so she doesn’t feel pressured or uncomfortable. Make it funny or sexy — in other words, make it special in some way. It is highly likely that upon receiving your thoughtful and sexy gift, she will not be able to stop smiling and giggling.  

She'll turn it on and get turned on

Buying your girlfriend a sex toy doesn’t have to be a traumatizing experience. Finding a good shop, whether online or downtown, makes life a lot easier: The staff will be educated, the packaging will be discreet and the toy will go the distance and handle the punishment dished out to it. It takes balls for a man to buy his woman a sex toy without her input, so give yourself a pat on the back for being so brave and courageous — and let her enjoy the fruits of your labor.

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Luv Touch

Looks can be deceiving. The Neon Luv Touch Bullets may look simple, but this is an extremely convenient and effective female sex toy. This cool little bullet vibrator is the perfect addition to your toy collection or as your first toy. 
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The Luck Of The Irish

We-Vibe® has become a pot o’ gold for pleasure-seeking couples 

around the world. The globe’s No. 1 selling vibrator worn while making

love, We-Vibe hugs her contours, stimulates both clitoris and G-spot, 

and leaves plenty of room for him to share the vibe. 

Discover We-Vibe for St. Patrick’s Day and inspire the pleasure of an Irish romance.

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Cupcake Vibrator with 5 Modes

So cute, so sweet, but what a naughty treat!

The Cupcake vibrator is a life-size sex toy that fits in the palm of your hand and looks good enough to eat. The Cupcake is made from the softest silicone and boasts two speeds and three pulsation patterns. An on/off button is situated underneath the cup to achieve the five combinations. Each Cupcake comes with two AAA batteries, a retro mini baking tin and a beautiful 1950's style pinup girl tag.

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Some Documented Health Benefits Of Masturbation:

Health Benefits for Men

— Improving his immune system’s functioning.

— Building his resistance to prostate gland infection.

— Making for a healthier prostate.

Health Benefits for Women

— Building her resistance to yeast infections.

— Combating pre-menstrual tension and other physical conditions associated with their menstrual cycles, like cramps.

— Relieving painful menstruation by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region. This will also reduce pelvic cramping and related backaches.

— Relieving chronic back pain and increasing her threshold for pain.

Health Benefits for Both Sexes

— The safest kind of sex, keeping you free of sexually transmitted infections.

— A great form of stress relief.

— A mood booster in releasing endorphins.

— A natural sleep sedative.

— A mechanism for building stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to better sex.

— A natural energetic pick-me-up.

For couples who masturbate on occasion or regularly, sex with yourself can:

— Be empowering, especially by helping you to feel better about your body, genitals and sexual response.

— Deliver some of your most intense orgasms ever, which you’ll now know how to recreate with that special someone!

— Increase your sexual awareness, giving you the opportunity to discover what turns you on – the sensations and movements that work best to give you the greatest of sexual gratification.

— Have the potential to enhance your sex life in general, boosting your sexual confidence and turning you into a better lover.

— Get you or your partner off the hook if neither is available or not in the mood.

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Vibrators 101: What to know about everyone's favorite sex toy.

Vibrators 101: What to know about everyone's favorite sex toy.

Some are called rabbits. Others? Elephants. There are plenty of words to describe the battery-powered pleasure centers that are tucked in bedside drawers everywhere, but they're best known by one word: vibrators.

Every woman should have a vibrator handy, but sadly such is not the case. Perhaps it's a lack of knowledge about the power—literally and figuratively—of these sex toys. To catch everyone up to speed, we've assembled five things that every woman needs to know about her should-be best friend.

1. Vibrators are good for you. Sure, they help you orgasm without requiring the pesky presence of a male, but "good for you" also relates to health. Studies have shown that women who use vibrators are more likely to have had their annual gynecological exam than women who don't use them. So, essentially, as you're giving yourself the gift of clitoral stimulation, you're also more mindful of your vaginal health. That's a win-win in our book.

2. Dudes don't hate them. Contrary to popular belief, vibrators don't intimidate men. Maybe not every guy will be showering his girlfriend with gift-wrapped Pink Elephants, but studies show that overall men are A-OK with women using vibrators. In fact, many agree they are a healthy part of a woman's sex life.

3. You've got to believe! Having confidence in the power of your battery-powered friend can do wonders. In one research study, women who had positive beliefs regarding their vibrators—and had used them within the previous 30 days—reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction. That means more arousal, lubrication and better orgasms.

4. They can get dirty. No, we aren't talking the kinky kind of dirty; we're talking the "need to be cleaned" kind. Think about where that vibrator has been and then think about the last time you gave it a good wipe down. Sorry if we're grossing you out, it's just the truth, ladies. There is such a thing as sex toy cleaner, but for those of us not looking for high-end help, soap will do just fine. In general, just wet a cloth with warm, soapy water and wipe off your toy (just avoid the battery compartment and control area).

5. They have a shelf life. A nice, expensive vibrator will last you a good, long while—but not forever. The cheaper ones will last for about one year if used semi regularly. And, if a vibe is made with a jelly or rubber, it absolutely must be tossed after one year, no matter how much it cost. Such materials harbor bacteria so keeping them longer than a year is bad news for lady parts. The good news is that more high-end vibrators often come with warranties, so if something breaks (perhaps from overuse?) replacement is possible.

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Guest Blog Review Of Waterproof Wallbanger Deluxe by @TrinaWitch

Welcome to my first guest post on Pinktrickle's  blog. I am a long time fan of her sex toy website, it never fails to arouse me every time I visit, and I follow her on twitter @pinktrickle .

I volunteered to test drive  Waterproof Wallbanger Deluxe and review it.





First, in case I didn't say it already... a big THANK YOU to Pinktrickle!!!!

OK, a couple of downsides: 
1) no on off switch, so if you want to use it in the tub & you don't live alone, make sure everyone else is busy...
2) no adjustable speed....

Despite those two downsides, it was absolutely a joy to play with! 


I'm falling in love with these flexible, softer types of vibrators for sure! The shaft was very comfortable, it could even be a bit bigger for me, but that's just my opinion :) 


I'm usually a 4-5 time a day girl and sometimes it does take a bit to get me off, but the first time with this little pink pleasure was fabulous, I may have lasted 2 whole minutes! 


Very very enjoyable. Definitely a keeper :) Perfect for a beginner or sex toy novice.


You can follow @TrinaWitch on twitter.

Design Within Cute - This Month's Pink Pick

Design Within Cute

by Tami, Team Trickle

This month’s featured product is the Yooo. 

What is it?

It’s a cute little bubble of joy. It delights more than just the visual senses, but also your sexual senses. 

The bright colored spheres bring your pleasure zone alive.

Who would have thought that 3 little balls could be so much FUN?

The new, stylish, futuristic lay-on vibrator » Yooo « is fantastically awesome.

Order yours today from pinktrickle and use the code » SAVE5 « at checkout for trying this month’s featured product.

Get In Touch With Your Inner Kinkster

Many of us have an inner kinkster just waiting to get out. And often times we hold back those desires that tempt us to explore. I say it's time to let them free and play more. What better way to celebrate than to bring in some new kinky elements...

Here are just a few kinky ideas you may want to explore:


Naughty Role Play - dress up in sexy costumes, pretend to be strangers, have motel sex...

Light Bondage - try some hancuffs, masks, blindfolds, rope play, scarves or neck ties, whips, paddles, and spanking...

The Backdoor - anal play, licking, plugs, beads...

Add a Buzz - use a vibrator, a rabbit, a clit cuddler, or a remote controlled bullet...

Any of these would be a good starting point for some new kinky play. Visit one of my favorite sex toy sites, pinktrickle.com They have hundreds of ready for action kinky play things!

Have fun and Play More.

Great Pleasures Come In All Sizes

I Want To Buy A Sex Toy. How do I decide what to get?

I want to buy a sex toy, but I don't know the difference between a vibrator and a dildo! How do I decide what to get?

Generally speaking, vibrators are battery-operated or electrically powered devices that buzz or vibrate. They are used mainly for external stimulation, so if you're looking for clitoral titillation — which most women need to climax — a vibrator is your best bet. Some suggested types to try: "egg" or "bullet" styles, which have a speed-control lever and can be used for solo satisfaction or with your partner since they fit between the two of you; "hand-free" models that are held in place by straps that resemble a panty; or simple body massagers that you can use on your clitoris, as well as on sore muscles. (Body massagers are pretty powerful and often recommended to women trying to achieve the big O for the first time.) When choosing a vibrator, you'll want to consider the intensity of the sensation and the noise level (the softer the material, the quieter the toy).

If you want the feeling of penetration, you'll want to try a dildo, which resembles a penis, usually doesn't vibrate, and can be used vaginally or anally. (If you want to try back-door play, make sure it has a base specifically designed so it doesn't slide up too far.) When choosing a dildo, you'll want to factor length and width into your decision. And if you're looking for G-spot stimulation, try a phallic-shaped toy with a specially curved top. For the best of both worlds, check out the ever-popular Rabbit, a two-in-one toy: The swirling shaft offers the pleasure of penetration, while the buzzing "rabbit ears" stimulate your clitoris.

You can pick up your passion prop at your local sex shop. Or, if you want to be a little more private about your purchase, you'll find plenty of well-stocked online boutiques (like pinktrickle.com) that list items with pictures, descriptions, and specifics about cleaning and storage.

Some playthings pointers: Read the instructions before using. Avoid materials that may give you an allergic reaction (e.g., latex), and wash your toy with antibacterial soap and hot water before and after use and let it dry completely. If your carnal contraption is made of a porous substance (like jelly rubber or cyberskin, which are harder to clean than nonporous products like silicone), or you want to use your toy vaginally after using it for anal action, cover it with a condom each time it's used to make sure it's clean.


Read more: How do I figure out what sex toy to buy? - Cosmopolitan

[ #PinkPicks ] : The Special Touch of 'Glass'

[ #PinkPicks ] : The Special Touch of 'Glass'

Packing Sexy, Packing Smart For The Holidays

Amplify’d from sexuality.about.com

Packing Sexy, Packing Smart

If you can afford to fly somewhere this month to either increase or decrease the distance from you and your family now is the time to plan some of your packing. I'm not talking about which sweater to pack for your planned ugly holiday sweater party. I'm talking about sex toys, which, if you're packing to survive, should be something you've already thought of.

Unless you're heading out early, and your destination has a good sex shop, bringing even a small toy, a minor sexual distraction, can be a good way of taking care of yourself during what for most of us is a stressful time.

I travel with sex toys professionally, and I do it a lot. And over the years I've developed some of my own tricks, and picked up others from fellow travelers who are prone to over sharing on cross country flights once they find out what I do. And as a holiday gift, I share these tips with you.

Reader Stories: Tips for Discreet Sex Toy Airplane Trave

Read More - Vibes on a Plane and other Sex Toy Travel Tips

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Pinktrickle's Holiday Gift Guide

Welcome to pinktrickle's guide to holiday gifts for those pleasure connoisseurs on your list.

For Her

Elegance is the flagship vibrator. Its elegant and minimalist design unifies class and style. Its smooth medical-grade silicone and sleek digital control unit drives two motor on each ends delivering utmost pleasure. Elegance is splash proof, comes with gift box, charger, manual and satin pouch. GIVE THIS









Lockable vibrator case practically sell themselves-they're cute, they have an amazing price point, and they're a sexy way to keep your naughty valuables a secret from prying minds. The keyless locking system makes them perfect for multiple uses! Dimensions: L15inches x W8inches x H7inches
GIVE THIS










The world`s first waterproof multi-speed massage glove. The Fukuoku Five Finger Massage Glove houses vibrators at the tip of each finger creating approximately 45,000 vibrations per minute at full speed. The waterproof battery compartment is in a pouch at the base of the glove. 3 AAA batteries included. GIVE THIS












This innovative lay-on vibrator stimulates the body’s external erotic hotspots with its ergonomically designed shape and small, but powerful motor. It can be used for massaging and caressing every sensitive spot and is suitable for women and men! The vibration level is adjustable so that each erotic zone can be aroused gently or intensely. Three additional vibration modes provide for a variety of different pulsating vibrations. Special features • one-touch buttons • battery operated • 8 vibration levels • 3 vibration programs • stronger, quieter, longer-lasting motor Size: 4.1 inch GIVE THIS

SEE MORE GREAT GIFT IDEAS FOR HER... CLICK HERE

For Him


COBRA libre is the toy for the discerning man. When the penis enters the toy, the smooth, soft silicone hugs it closely for thrilling stimulation. An innovative and stylish control element easily adjusts the two independent motors, offering a range of vibration possibilities never before seen. The patterns create pulsing vibrations just underneath the sensitive penis glans for mind-blowing, on-the-spot stimulation. This sporty, ergonomically designed toy promises easy handling and modern pleasure. Thanks to the CLICK ‘N’ CHARGE recharge technology, pit stops are short and efficient. The »COBRA libre« will get your motor revving quickly and is an absolute must-have!FF Texture: Soft and velvety Soft and velvety says it all: this finish is a treat to touch Special Features • effectively stimulates the most sensitive part of the penis • rechargeable • 100% waterproof • two powerful, quiet motors for unique vibration patterns • intuitive control with one touch buttons • very easy to clean • easy to handle • super soft and velvety silicone GIVE THIS





He can see himself like never before. The Fleshlight Ice offers all the same super-soft pleasures of the original Fleshlight, but with a clear sleeve color and case for enhances visual stimulation. Fleshlight Ice is available with the exclusive Crystal inner texture which has been designed to stimulate your penis with distinctive sensations all throughout. As you explore the Fleshlight Ice you'll begin to appreciate the subtle nuances each uniquely chiseled pleasure chamber has to offer. GIVE THIS










He's always dreamt of fucking a busty bitch with huge 36DD's, so what are you waiting for? 
Fuck Her Big Fat Titties until you drain every ounce of ball-juice from your cock! Big tit lovers rejoice, we have designed a perfect pair of juicy juggs built for fucking and sucking! These massive DD melons are soft, bouncy, and made to jiggle and squish with each thrust. Slide your cock between her huge cans and titty-fuck her all night long! Pinch her nipples, slap her titties, and do as you please with her perfect pair of huge hooters. Enjoy every carefully-molded, 3D detail of her bustline--from her amazing under-boob, to her sexy side-boob, to her super-realistic shoulders, every angle is eye-candy for your cock! Best of all, every inch of her supple Fanta-Flesh skin is yours to enjoy. This is the most lifelike, realistic torso masturbator ever created and a must-have for all big boob enthusiasts. With 12 lbs. of super-soft Fanta-Flesh engulfing and massaging your cock, you'll swear you have a real DD rack right in front of you any time you get horny. Dress her up in your favorite bra or bustier, put her in a wife-beater for your very own personal wet t-shirt contest, or take her in the bath or shower for some tempting ta-ta shower play. Her perky, pink nipples are always rock-hard, and she never says no to a good time! When you're done, blow a load all over her big fat titties and give her the pearl necklace she always wanted. Cleanup is a snap after the fun with Pipedream Toy Cleaner and warm water, then apply Pipedream Extreme Revive cornstarch powder to restore the masturbator to soft, like-new quality. 
GIVE THIS

SEE MORE GREAT GIFT IDEAS FOR HIM... CLICK HERE

For Them

Liberator Sex Furniture - Liberator sex furniture helps you jazz up your sexual positions, while maintaining ultimate comfort. GIVE THIS

Clit Flicker and Erection enhancer cock ring has a powerful, wireless stimulator that vibrates the flickering tongue. Man wears it to maintain his erection and feels vibrations and the woman will love the vibrating tickler on each of the man's thrusts. Cell batteries included. GIVE THIS

SEE MORE GREAT GIFT IDEAS FOR COUPLES...CLICK HERE

THIS YEAR GIVE THE GIFT OF PLEASURE

Our orgasms are different -- men and women's

How to Have an Orgasm Like a Man

Our orgasms are different -- men and women's -- but there are similarities when it comes to our pleasure and men aren't the only ones to ejaculate. Nope. They're not. The first time I tried to female ejaculate I was alone with a mirror and a long, curved hard plastic sex toy. I spent a time with myself and my toy, until finally I felt this feeling of fullness. That's when I pulled the toy out and watched in the mirror. To my surprise, and delight, in the next few moments a clear, wet spurt of fluid landed at least two inches from where I was actually laying.

If you haven't already noticed, I'm a TMI girl. Yes, I'm an ejaculator. I don't have to ejaculate to have an orgasm though. And I never ejaculate as much as those porn stars do on camera, but more on that to come.

First, let's get down to what is, and what isn't, female ejaculate. True female ejaculate is not urine, it's actually fluid from the skene's glands, or female prostate. To GPS the skene's glands, look on either side of the urethra. Or don't look. The glands are really small, just like the urethral opening.

Female ejaculate contains certain things you don't find in urine, like glucose, fructose, prostatic acid phosphatase, and PSA. These are also things found in male prostatic fluid. Genuine female ejaculate, whether it squirts, spurts or dribbles, is no more than teaspoon in volume. That wet spot on the bed? That could be female ejaculate. The buckets of liquid certain porn performers seem to produce? That's not usually genuine female ejaculate, even if it ejaculates out of her body.

I learned the trick to producing copious amounts of ejaculate when working on my own educational DVD series. I was casting for a segment on the subject, so I googled female ejaculation. That's when Cytherea’s name popped up. She’s a porn star known for squirting (another popular term used to reference ejaculation). I was impressed with her ejaculatory resume, so I hired her to ejaculate for my movie too.

Cytherea ejaculated ... a lot. And she drank a lot of water, in fact, she was never without a water bottle on set. It seems the key to shooting out buckets of clear fluid is staying hydrated. The more hydrated she was, the more she would ejaculate.

In order to learn to ejaculate, get comfortable and get aroused, and then start exploring inside your vagina. To make it happen, you'll need to massage the urethral sponge, aka G-spot. That means you (or someone/something you trust) will need to go inside your vagina. Not super far in, since the G-spot is usually towards the entrance of the vagina. With arousal, the G-spot feels like a Ruffles potato chip (think ridges) or the roof of your mouth.

Since we're massaging the urethral sponge, but because we never want anything to go into our urethral openings, ouch, we rub the top wall of the vagina, and not the bottom wall of the urethra. We need to use some pressure.The harder and longer you rub, the more likely the urge to expel fluid will become. Like a sponge under water, the urethral sponge fills with fluid and feels noticeably denser before ejaculation.

For those who can't figure out if they like G-spot stimulation, or what the big deal is, remember, the G-spot is only one club on the strip. There are lots of other places to party for pleasure. I generally ejaculate if stimulated farther back, along the top wall of the vagina. That's where you'll come in contact with other fabulous spots on the sponge. One in particular, and one used during female ejaculation, is called the A-spot. The A-spot has the same feelings as the G-spot, but it's closer to the cervix than it is to the entrance of the vagina.

If you continue to rub deep enough, hard enough or long enough, that’s when you can produce female ejaculate. And if you begin to rub deep and hard and it feels like it's time to pee, then you're moving in the right direction. (Pee before you start to avoid feeling embarrassed by this sensation.) While all of this is going on inside of you, use your pelvic floor muscles to tighten around the finger, toy or penis for added build-up and even more fireworks during expulsion.

Here's the clencher. When I want to ejaculate, I have to push out. When we think about orgasm, women tend to pull in. We usually think about tightening our genitals and squeezing up, but in order to ejaculate, I have to bear down and push out whatever is inside of me.

You don't have to ejaculate to have amazing orgasms. Learning to ejaculate is a commitment, and if you choose to commit, then once you learn, you'll understand your body even better than you ever imagined. And yes, I do believe all women can learn to ejaculate, but I don't think all women need to or want to. It's not always a satisfying orgasm, and sometimes it's a big mess. Still, I like that I do it.

Does learning to ejaculate interest you? Have you done it before?

Image via Lrargerich/flickr

About the author Jamye Waxman M.Ed is a sex educator and writer who loves to cuddle. She believes that intimacy takes work but should be fun, and communication is the key. She's also a TMI kind of girl.

Read more at thestir.cafemom.com