10 Great Reasons To Masturbate

Self love is OK.

“Don’t knock masturbation…it’s sex with someone I love.” -Woody Allen

1. It keeps you in touch with yourself.

Men and women who masturbate on a regular basis understand the rhythms of their bodies better than those who don’t. This can help you build up sexual stamina for when you’re with a partner, avoid premature orgasms, and be able to keep yourself satisfied longer.

2. Orgasming before a date relieves pressure.
For some men, going on a date can be stressful and/or sexually frustrating. Rubbing one out prior to leaving home can leave you with a clearer mind and better focus on the activities themselves, rather than fantasizing about your date the whole time.

3. It can relieve menstrual cramps.
For many women, the contractions involved in cumming can be a big help in getting rid of cramps. It also helps you focus on the pleasure your body can bring in that area, and put you in a healthier frame of mind. Or, if you’re like me and don’t have pain during your period, it can just aid in ending the bleeding sooner.

4. Natural sleep enhancer.
When you orgasm, your blood pressure lowers, breathing deepens, muscle tension decreases, and dopamine/endorphins flood your body. This creates a nice relaxed state for both sexes to easily fall asleep in.

5. If you don’t use it, you lose it.
Sad, but ultimately true. Orgasms, whether attained with a partner or alone, raise the levels of nitric oxide in the bloodstream. This chemical is necessary for proper lubrication in women and erection in both sexes. The less time you spend with your sexual side, the less nitric oxide you have available to use…and the harder it is to get in a physically aroused state. There’s a reason people in relationships masturbate more than loners!

6. Orgasms keep the plumbing clean.
Regular use of your genitals can lead to better health later on. For both sexes, orgasms mean better blood flow, fresher sexual scent, and prevention of blockages in the prostate gland in men and skene glands in women. Is your health worth the 10 minutes it takes to cum?

7. It can relieve blue balls/labia.
It’s not as spoken about from the female side, but both men and women can become so physically aroused that if orgasm isn’t reached the entire genital area becomes a point of agony. Trust me on this…it’s bad. This is caused by blood remaining in an area for too long, creating intense pressure, pain, pelvic aches, slight discoloration of the scrotum or labia, and in severe cases can even make walking difficult/painful. The only way to stop this from occurring (or curing it) is to climax and allow the blood to flow normally again.

8. You’ll be healthier overall.
It’s probably not a surprise at this point, but people who freely masturbate have fewer hangups about cumming solo than those who are raised to believe it’s somehow bad to touch your own body. This means they obsess about masturbation less, and feel no guilt over doing it. It’s also been shown that frequent orgasms can improve your immune system, increase the health of your cardiovascular self, and alleviate some symptoms of depression. Orgasms: They’re good for what ails ya.

9. Face it: You don’t always have a partner.
Whether you are completely single, are in a long distance relationship, or are with a partner who’s libido is smaller than yours…it’s time to acknowledge that you can’t always get sex when you want it. I know how it is to be “ready to go” when your sex partner isn’t feeling up to it. It sucks, but what are you gonna do? Answer: Take matters into your own hand! This helps to relieve you sexually, and your mate from feeling guilty. Remember that resentment isn’t sexy.
*Note: if your partner consistently begs off from sex of any kind without an adequate reason/explanation, it’s probably time to see a counselor or have a serious heart-to-heart talk.*

10. It’s fun.

With all the toys, porn, sexual education movies, and erotica out there to choose from, is it any wonder that people choose to masturbate more? It can give you fresh ideas to try with a partner, or allow you to live out entire complex fantasies in your head. That, and if you’ve ever had a orgasm, you know just how amazing and nigh indescribable an experience it is. Why not give yourself a treat everyday? You deserve it!

How to Make Him Taste Better: Oral Sex Advice

If you are one of the many girls out there that doesn’t like giving head to their long term partner because his sperm tastes bad and he doesn’t always give you enough warning to make your decision between spitting and swallowing, there is finally help at hand. Yup, you can make oral sex more appetizing!

Did you know that your man’s diet could be the reason behind his funky tasting spunk? Sometimes something as simple as a daily multivitamin could do the trick. To find out how to sweeten your man’s sugar, keep reading as we dive right in!

Frisky Fruity!

Feeding him fruit is the easiest way to sweeten up his spunk. It’s as simple as that. Fruits like strawberries, pineapple, blueberries and plums are the best and easiest. Why not whip him up a morning smoothie of delicious fruits in the morning and see if the drink has worked its magic that evening? There’s only one way to find out! A little smoothie could mean the difference between loving oral sex and being repulsed by it.

Minty Madness

Eating more mints can make his semen taste sweeter and it’s not just gum and fresh mints that will do the trick! You could make a meal consisting of new potatoes with added fresh mint leaves to give him the minty injection he needs, or even just add a few mint leaves into the salad that you are preparing. Why not search for mint based recipes online?

Of course, if all else fails, there’s nothing wrong with taking a minty ice cream to bed with you and smothering it on his body… It’ll mask the taste if nothing else!

Beer is Bad!

Drinks like beer and coffee are bad for the semen and will leave it tasting very bitter so if you can, try to limit his intake of these beverages. If you increase his water intake at the same time, you will be killing two birds with one stone as the water will help to flush the bad stuff out of his body, which could in turn lead to his spunk tasting a lot better! It’s not going to be easy, but if push comes to shove you can always bribe him to drink up with the promise of a BJ! Betcha’ he’ll drink any concoction you hand him in exchange for more oral sex!

Switch the Veg!

If you love to pile his plate full of broccoli, cabbage and asparagus before a night of oral sex, you are making things worse for yourself. These are the worst foods to feed him if you want his spunk to taste nice. Instead of these, why not switch things up a bit, impress his palate and show off your culinary skills by incorporating the likes of wheat germ, parsley and celery into the dish that you are preparing – these can help it to taste much yummier.

Say NO to Red Meat!

This is probably going to be the hardest task of all – persuading your man to give the red meat a miss for a while. In fact, red meat and dairy products can be the worst culprits of unappetizing oral sex and although it will be hard work to get him to opt for white meat or fish instead of a nice lump of steak, the benefits for you later on will be worth it! Maybe just show him this article and let us do the talking!

Of course, if you are having no luck with the dietary changes to change the outcome of his blowjobs, you could always just invest in some good body licks to mask the taste of his bad-tasting juice. Most adult stores will sell a variety of lubricants, body licks, massage oils and more which you can use to make things taste a little sweeter!

Why Buy Sex Toys?

Pleasure

In a society where sexual pleasure and guilt are associated, it's not surprising that sex toys have gotten a bad rap just for being themselves. It goes without saying that sex toys are best enjoyed with no guilt attached. They require no justification; sex toys are pleasure for pleasure's sake. They offer us a unique opportunity to explore our bodies in new and exciting ways. You'll no doubt discover more about sexual desire and probably discover a few new erogenous zones as well. Sex toys are simply a gateway to pleasure.

Fantasy

For those of us in monogamous relationships, it's often difficult to explore our sexual fantasies. Being faithful is more important than living out your deepest desires. Toys give us the opportunity to indulge our fantasies in a completely safe environment. In this sense, sex toys can be an extremely helpful addition to any loving relationship. It's nearly impossible for one person to satisfy every facet of another's desire. Sex toys can help by providing a new element to your sexual ritual without the complications of the actual realization of your fantasies.

Inspiration

An uninspired performance in the bedroom can be a real strain on your relationship. With the daily stresses of life, sex can often take a back seat to more pressing matters. Whether it's families or careers, our lives are busier than ever and intimacy often feels the squeeze. So why not introduce something a little risqué to the proceedings? Sex toys give couples a chance to explore each other and have a light-hearted laugh along the way. Adult toys are a wonderful way to spice up your sex life.

Sexual Health

Sex toys are good for you! There are some interesting and well-documented health benefits associated with the use of sex toys.

During menopause, most women experience some thinning of the vaginal wall. Studies indicate that the regular use of a dildo can help maintain vaginal tone.

Women who have trouble reaching orgasm can also benefit from the use of sex toys. Many leading experts on the subject recommend the use of a vibrator to help overcome orgasmic difficulty.

Common Myths

Myth #1: My partner wants to use sex toys. I must be sexually inadequate.

Whenever buying (or considering buying) a sex toy, it's a good idea to consider the feelings of your partner. Discussing sex toys with your partner before introducing them into your sex lives is not only respectful, but in many cases quite necessary. Many people assume that sex toys are purchased to fulfill some sort of sexual inadequacy. This is most often not the case. Discuss your reasons for buying a sex toy with your partner; it's usually necessary to prevent any hurt feelings.

Most people buy sex toys because they're an enjoyable way to explore new possibilities. It's fun to explore sexual potential whether alone or with a partner.

Myth #2: I'll get addicted to sex toys and won't be able to reach orgasm without them.

There's a very human propensity to become familiar with a particular form of stimulation. Whether it's cunnilingus from your partner, or vaginal penetration from your dildo, there are some forms of stimulation you count on to get you off. You can become addicted to your vibrator just as easily as you become addicted to a particular practice with your partner. It can happen, but you are not helpless to control and change it. Experiment with new positions, new toys, and new activities. Keep trying new things and you'll never be sexually dependent on any one particular practice.

Myth #3: Using a vibrator will cause damage to my genitals.

There's absolutely no physiological basis for such an argument. Vibrators can occasionally make genitals feel numb during or immediately after use but the sensitivity will always return. Experiment with different forms of stimulation during sex play to decrease any numbing effects.

You can pick up your passion prop at your local sex shop. Or, if you want to be a little more private about your purchase, you'll find plenty of well-stocked online boutiques (like pinktrickle.com ) that list items with pictures, descriptions, and specifics about cleaning and storage. 

Some playthings pointers: Read the instructions before using. Avoid materials that may give you an allergic reaction (e.g., latex), and wash your toy with antibacterial soap and hot water before and after use and let it dry completely. If your carnal contraption is made of a porous substance (like jelly rubber or cyberskin, which are harder to clean than nonporous products like silicone), or you want to use your toy vaginally after using it for anal action, cover it with a condom each time it's used to make sure it's clean.

You can find an excellent selection of brand name sex toys, bondage and fetish and other erotic products @ pinktrickle.com

Sex Ed: Women vs. Men Fantasy Types

Who fantasizes about what—and why.

By Jay Dixit

Everyone knows the usual scenarios—the mysterious stranger, the threesome, meeting and making love to George Clooney. But sexual fantasies are more varied than we imagine, says Wendy Maltz, a sex therapist and author of Private Thoughts: Exploring the Power of Women's Sexual Fantasies.

In scripted fantasies—which we conjure while having sex or daydreaming, and which involve characters and follow a narrative—women mostly cast themselves in six roles, found Maltz: 

1. The Pretty Maiden (object of another's desire) 
2. The Victim (object of humiliation or violence) 
3. The Wild Woman (initiator of sex) 
4. The Dominatrix (who exerts power over others) 
5. The Voyeur (who watches others having sex) 
6. The Beloved (who intimately connects with a lover of equal power)

Unscripted fantasies are more fleeting—often triggered by objects in our environment—and focus on images or sensations rather than characters or a traditional storyline. Among women, these often portray the building and releasing of tension—mimicking the sexual response cycle itself—and involve images not usually considered sexual, such as horses galloping, flowers blossoming and releasing perfume, trains cresting hills, or storm clouds gathering and then spilling their water. Men have abstract fantasies too. One man imagined his wife was a diamond, and he a ray of light shining into her.

Fantasies reflect the stimuli we're exposed to during our sexual awakening, says Maltz, the way drug addicts learn to associate the stimuli present when they get high—shot glasses, rock music, drug paraphernalia—with pleasure itself. One subject experienced her first orgasm when jumping into a swimming pool, then found her fantasies as an adult all involved water. A girl who first experienced sensual feelings on a swing set might have kinesthetic fantasies. A boy who gets his first erection watching a girl brush her hair might have fantasies involving hair.

Our fantasies also reflect our anxieties, says Michael Bader, author of Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies. A woman insecure about her attractiveness may fantasize about driving men crazy with desire—say, inducing a police officer, president, or priest to step out of his normal role—or of having sex while men watch. A woman worried she's too much for a man may fantasize about being overpowered. As one female subject put it, "My desire is like a wave crashing on the shore. I don't want to worry about whether the shore can take it."

Powerful men, meanwhile, may fantasize about relinquishing that power and being dominated. Studies show men are actually more aroused than women by fantasies of being restrained, dominated, or spanked, says Bader. As sex researcher Nancy Friday put it in Men In Love, the secret wish of men is "to be done to." 

MALE FANTASY

• Graphic and visual
• Impersonal relationship dynamics; multiple or interchangeable partners.
• Focus more on body parts and explicit sex

FEMALE FANTASY

• Multisensory, including touch
• Romantic situations, emotional involvement; think the soft-focus mood-lighting of perfume ads
• Can be abstract, like flowers blossoming.

What are some of the things you fantasize about?

Sex Butters, They're Not For Toast

Whether you’re a couple or all alone, I endorse Sex Butters 100%. They smell great, taste great, and it actually makes you feel like you’re having healthier sex (or masturbation).

If you’re in the market for a sexual lubricant, you need to try some of these get Sex Butters.

If you like sex. I should probably try this.

Sleeping Separately Won't Kill Your Marriage

Sleeping separately won't kill your marriage -- in fact, it can help it. A lot. Societal conventions say that moving into separate bedrooms is the beginning of the end of a marriage, but that is simply not true. According to one recent study done in Toronto, 30-40% of couples are already sleeping separately. Many couples just don’t want to talk about it publicly, because people assume that if you are sleeping separately from your spouse, your marriage is in trouble.

Image by ginnerobot via Flickr

But in reality, the stresses of people with different sleep cycles and styles trying to sleep together night after night after night can create the kind of stress and tension that can cause a marriage to break down. This is especially true in military marriages, where the spouse who is not in the military constantly has to adjust the other spouse being gone, coming back, and getting up at all hours.

Spouses of combat veterans may find their spouses have significant sleep problems because of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)and/or traumatic brain injury (TBI) -- which can result in the other spouse not really sleeping, as well. That was the case for us. I am not a great sleeper under any circumstances, so trying to sleep with a spouse who can’t sleep without heavy medication caused a lot of stress.

Without knowing it and while he was sleeping, usually under the influence of heavy prescription medication, my spouse has hit me, choked me, and thrown me out of bed. I could move closer to him in my sleep and wake up suddenly with his hands around my throat -- because, in his sleep, he perceived my moving closer to him as a threat.

Sleep is important for everyone. Sleep is when the brain declutters itself and processes events. It’s been proven that you need restful sleep in order to stay healthy. Lack of sleep causes irritability, cognitive problems, and weight gain.

For people who are struggling with PTSD or healing from TBI, sleep is essential for healing. My husband’s neurologist recommended that people with TBI get at least 9 hours of restful sleep at night. Lack of restful sleep is one of the biggest health problems that plague our society -- and, ironically, it’s one that is very easy for some people to fix without any kind of medical help or intervention.

When one spouse can’t sleep, or snores, or paces, or wants the room super hot or cold, and the other spouse has similar issues or is a light sleeper, no one is getting the healing sleep they need. Over time that can seriously damage your health, make you gain weight, and keep the spouse with PTSD/TBI from healing.

"What about sex?" That’s the most frequently asked question about sleeping separately. How many couples only have sex immediately before they go to sleep? Not many. But you can always slip into your spouse’s bed before falling asleep or in the morning to have sex. Sleeping separately can radically improve your sex life. Both people are much more likely to be in the mood for sex when they are well rested. It also makes sex more fun choosing whose bed to have sex in. There are a lot of more ways to spice up romantic time together and it will be more fun when you have to make an effort.

In the study I quoted above, many couples who sleep separately reported to researchers that moving into separate bedrooms dramatically improved their sex lives. Physical closeness and intimacy apart from sex is important too, but couples can still get that. Taking naps together are a fantastic way to cuddle and be close without the hassles of sleeping with someone else. My husband and I take naps on weekends that help us reconnect. Another option would be to sleep separately during the week and sleep together on weekend nights. That way you can get restful sleep during the week but the intimacy that you crave on the weekends.

"We don’t have enough space for separate bedrooms." That’s the other big objection that most people raise. I know that space is a legitimate issue. My husband and I chose not to have kids so we generally always have an extra bedroom or two that we can use but people who have kids often don’t have that extra room. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have a separate sleeping space.

If you can’t have an entire bedroom for yourself or your spouse what about carving out a corner of another room? A futon set up behind a curtained off area in the den, playroom, or finished basement will work just fine. Or convert the spare room into a spouse bedroom. Set your guests up on an air mattress in the living room at the holidays. Get creative with the space you have. It really is worth it.

Another benefit to sleeping separately is a sense of privacy that many people give up when they get married. Some people are more independent than others and need a sense of having their own space. Personally, I am an extremely independent person, and I need to have a space of my own with all my stuff. My husband likes to have a room of his own where he can display all his coins, photos from deployment, memorials to the friends he has lost, and other very personal items.

Sometimes living with someone who has PTSD and TBI can be really intense, and it helps that we both have a space to go and breathe when things get stressful or intense. We both enjoy having our own space to meditate, do yoga, and read. We have slept apart for the last several years, and would never go back to trying to force ourselves to sleep together every night again.

Of course this doesn’t work for everyone, but for a lot of military couples or couples dealing with combat-related PTSD and TBI, it can be a marriage-saver. Don’t be afraid to try sleeping separately. If sleeping together was the only thing that kept a marriage strong then no military marriages would ever survive.

By their very nature, military marriages involve long separations. Deployments, temporary duty assignment, trainings, and all the other facets of military life mean that one spouse ends up alone a lot of the time. One of the hardest parts about deployment for me, before we started sleeping apart, was learning to sleep without him when he left and then learning to sleep with him again when he came home. On his second deployment, we were sleeping separately, and the transition was much easier when he came home, because we could both get restful and healing sleep. Even a few nights a week apart can make a huge positive difference.

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Ten Tips For A Happy Sex Life Into Old Age

• Be tender, be understanding and don't exert any emotional pressure...it may start and end with stroking, kissing and touching. If it becomes sexual, so much the better;
• Don't think that intercourse is essential...mutual masturbation can be as enjoyable as penetration;
• Accept that sex won't be as energetic as in your younger years;
• Don't be ashamed to use sex aids, if agreed by both partners; 
• Don't stick to set times and days for sex - be spontaneous;
• Make sure you have enough time without interruptions;
• Find out the possible side-effects of any medication you are taking, particularly if they are likely to affect your libido/desire levels, and if necessary change the medication;
• Avoid too much alcohol before having sex;
• Take advantage of Viagra, Cialis and other medications that counter erectile dysfunction;
• Seek counselling if necessary...sometimes the issues affecting a relationship are best discussed through a neutral third party.

A Hundred Orgasms A Day - Extraordinary People

I just watched that whole thing...Now I'm going to go have a few of my own, hello, vibrator!

Some Documented Health Benefits Of Masturbation:

Health Benefits for Men

— Improving his immune system’s functioning.

— Building his resistance to prostate gland infection.

— Making for a healthier prostate.

Health Benefits for Women

— Building her resistance to yeast infections.

— Combating pre-menstrual tension and other physical conditions associated with their menstrual cycles, like cramps.

— Relieving painful menstruation by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region. This will also reduce pelvic cramping and related backaches.

— Relieving chronic back pain and increasing her threshold for pain.

Health Benefits for Both Sexes

— The safest kind of sex, keeping you free of sexually transmitted infections.

— A great form of stress relief.

— A mood booster in releasing endorphins.

— A natural sleep sedative.

— A mechanism for building stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to better sex.

— A natural energetic pick-me-up.

For couples who masturbate on occasion or regularly, sex with yourself can:

— Be empowering, especially by helping you to feel better about your body, genitals and sexual response.

— Deliver some of your most intense orgasms ever, which you’ll now know how to recreate with that special someone!

— Increase your sexual awareness, giving you the opportunity to discover what turns you on – the sensations and movements that work best to give you the greatest of sexual gratification.

— Have the potential to enhance your sex life in general, boosting your sexual confidence and turning you into a better lover.

— Get you or your partner off the hook if neither is available or not in the mood.

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Shades Of Kink - What's Your Take?

Shades Of Kink - What's Your Take?

by pinktrickle

Fifty Shades of Kink now sweeping the nation.

By now a good portion of the female population, and some males, globally has read one, if not all of the "Fifty Shades Of Grey" novels.


Are you one of them?

If so, how much has it affected your sex life?

Has it opened your eyes to some new bondage fantasies?

And would you/have you acted on those fantasies?

Please leave your answers below.

Vibrators 101: What to know about everyone's favorite sex toy.

Vibrators 101: What to know about everyone's favorite sex toy.

Some are called rabbits. Others? Elephants. There are plenty of words to describe the battery-powered pleasure centers that are tucked in bedside drawers everywhere, but they're best known by one word: vibrators.

Every woman should have a vibrator handy, but sadly such is not the case. Perhaps it's a lack of knowledge about the power—literally and figuratively—of these sex toys. To catch everyone up to speed, we've assembled five things that every woman needs to know about her should-be best friend.

1. Vibrators are good for you. Sure, they help you orgasm without requiring the pesky presence of a male, but "good for you" also relates to health. Studies have shown that women who use vibrators are more likely to have had their annual gynecological exam than women who don't use them. So, essentially, as you're giving yourself the gift of clitoral stimulation, you're also more mindful of your vaginal health. That's a win-win in our book.

2. Dudes don't hate them. Contrary to popular belief, vibrators don't intimidate men. Maybe not every guy will be showering his girlfriend with gift-wrapped Pink Elephants, but studies show that overall men are A-OK with women using vibrators. In fact, many agree they are a healthy part of a woman's sex life.

3. You've got to believe! Having confidence in the power of your battery-powered friend can do wonders. In one research study, women who had positive beliefs regarding their vibrators—and had used them within the previous 30 days—reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction. That means more arousal, lubrication and better orgasms.

4. They can get dirty. No, we aren't talking the kinky kind of dirty; we're talking the "need to be cleaned" kind. Think about where that vibrator has been and then think about the last time you gave it a good wipe down. Sorry if we're grossing you out, it's just the truth, ladies. There is such a thing as sex toy cleaner, but for those of us not looking for high-end help, soap will do just fine. In general, just wet a cloth with warm, soapy water and wipe off your toy (just avoid the battery compartment and control area).

5. They have a shelf life. A nice, expensive vibrator will last you a good, long while—but not forever. The cheaper ones will last for about one year if used semi regularly. And, if a vibe is made with a jelly or rubber, it absolutely must be tossed after one year, no matter how much it cost. Such materials harbor bacteria so keeping them longer than a year is bad news for lady parts. The good news is that more high-end vibrators often come with warranties, so if something breaks (perhaps from overuse?) replacement is possible.

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A Girl’s Guide To Masturbation: Touch Thyself

Masturbation. Couldn’t someone think of a cooler term to describe getting yourself off? It sounds so … mechanical.

Regardless of the actual word, I masturbate. Yeah, I said it. And sadly, most girls really won’t throw it out there like that. For some reason guys can just talk about jerking off as if it’s part of their morning routine — “I brushed my teeth, took a shower, wacked off, got dressed and went to class.” Um, that never happens if you’re a girl. It’s more like, “I’m heading to bed early tonight” a.k.a. “I’m horny and I have a date with my vibrator.” Sure, my friends and I have had that conversation where you let the cat out of the bag, and they all admit it too. But there’s always that friend who’s like, “Guys, that’s gross, I don’t do that.”

Yeah, right! How the hell have you never touched yourself? It’s part of being a girl; it’s only natural to explore your body. And if you want to enjoy sex, you should seriously learn what turns you on.

So for all of you that are in denial of your female anatomy and afraid of getting a little “dirty,” I found a great article to help you out. Just read it. Give yourself an orgasm and learn what you’ve been missing.

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MY POLL: Which Political Party Are The Freakier Lovers?

So, I was asked the other day by my friend which political party I thought would be freakier in the bedroom. I told her I'm not sure, both parties are powerful, affluent and prone to sexual controversy.

That being said, I'd love to know which party you think would be the kinkier?


MY POLL: Which Political Party Are The Freakier Lovers?
Republicans
Democrats
Liberals
Independents


Please leave your choice, reasons and comments below.







Image(s): FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Guest Blog Review Of Waterproof Wallbanger Deluxe by @TrinaWitch

Welcome to my first guest post on Pinktrickle's  blog. I am a long time fan of her sex toy website, it never fails to arouse me every time I visit, and I follow her on twitter @pinktrickle .

I volunteered to test drive  Waterproof Wallbanger Deluxe and review it.





First, in case I didn't say it already... a big THANK YOU to Pinktrickle!!!!

OK, a couple of downsides: 
1) no on off switch, so if you want to use it in the tub & you don't live alone, make sure everyone else is busy...
2) no adjustable speed....

Despite those two downsides, it was absolutely a joy to play with! 


I'm falling in love with these flexible, softer types of vibrators for sure! The shaft was very comfortable, it could even be a bit bigger for me, but that's just my opinion :) 


I'm usually a 4-5 time a day girl and sometimes it does take a bit to get me off, but the first time with this little pink pleasure was fabulous, I may have lasted 2 whole minutes! 


Very very enjoyable. Definitely a keeper :) Perfect for a beginner or sex toy novice.


You can follow @TrinaWitch on twitter.

51 Christian Phrases For Anal Sex

51 Christian Phrases For Anal Sex

Anal Sex | A BACKDOOR PREP GUIDE

Anal Sex

A BACKDOOR PREP GUIDE

The secret to making anal sex a fantastic experience for both you and your girlfriend is all in the preparation. Whether you’re doing it for the first time or you’ve made it a regular part of your sex life, there are some essential steps to take before any back door action goes on. As she becomes accustomed to anal stimulation, some of these preparations will become less time consuming, but still always necessary.

Use dark sheets

If the potential messiness of anal sex is a problem for you, you may want to start by replacing those bright white bed sheets with a darker color. You’re less likely to see stains if you throw some darker sheets on before you get started.

Don’t over-douche

Many people try to make an end-run around the mess by having the woman douche before having anal sex. While douching will clean out the anal cavity and may even feel good to some people, excessive douching can dry out the anal canal and cause micro-abrasions that make passing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) more likely. If she goes number two before you get started, the mess should be minimal.

Relax her

When planning to have anal sex, especially for the first time, it is important to create a relaxing, non-intimidating atmosphere. The more relaxed she is, the easier it will be. Putting on some sexy music, getting the lighting right and starting out with a massage will get her to loosen up literally and figuratively.

Anal foreplay

Rarely should your penis be the first thing to enter her ass when it comes to having anal sex. Get her prepared by using your tongue and your fingers on the area first. You can even use sex toys to get her accustomed to being penetrated there. There is a wide variety of toys designed specifically for anal play. Remember to take it slow, let them get use to the feel and pressure, before increasing your strokes.

Lube up

The No. 1 rule for pleasurable anal sex is to always use plenty of lube. Since the anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, it is necessary to up the slipperiness factor by using artificial lube. Make sure the lube you choose is condom safe and have lots of it on hand. You may need to reapply during your anal sex session, especially when using a water-based lubricant that will eventually evaporate.

Use protection

Pregnancy may not be an issue when it comes to anal sex, but you should always wear a condom in order to prevent STI transmission. The anus is more susceptible than the vagina to tiny cuts and tears that could make transmitting STIs easier. If you’re concerned about using your mouth on her ass, which can certainly spread STIs as well, use a dental dam as a barrier. You can even use latex gloves to cover your hands. Condoms can also be put on butt toys for hygienic purposes, especially if they are made of jelly or other porous materials or if you are planning on sharing the toys with others.

Always be prepared

If anal sex is your goal, there is a bit of prep work involved in order to make it a great experience for both your and your girl. It is really in your best interest to make sure she enjoys herself, since even one bad anal incident can put her off for life. So if you want to keep anal on the menu, do the groundwork and keep her happy.

 

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May is for Masturb****n

May is finally here! The birds are singing, summer is at our door, the weather is warming up, clothes are coming off, and love is in the air! Self-love that is. You might not know this, but May is National Masturbation Month. So break out the lube, the toys and the porn because we’re getting down and dirty with ourselves in celebration of the best month of the year.

Masturbation, we all do it, well almost all of us. According to statistics, (if you didn’t notice yet, I love statistics.) 95% of men admit to masturbating, compared to 89% of women. 53% of women report using vibrators during solo sex, and 17% of men will admit to using sex toys during masturbation. One of the most popular sex toy for men has to be the Fleshlight as there have been at least 4 million Fleshlights sold worldwide. Interestingly enough, 4 out of 10 women say they prefer masturbation over sex! I can’t say I’m entirely surprised, but 40%?!?

Choking the chicken, spanking the monkey, flicking the bean, whatever you want to call it, like most things when it comes to sex we had to figure it out by ourselves, either by accident, or by having someone explain to us that touching ourselves “down there” was strange and fun all at once. We could have all benefited from a jacking off 101 course back then. Well it’s never too late to learn and I’m here to give you a few pointers to enhance your solo sex sessions.

How do you masturbate? If you are like most people, you’ve developed a sure fire way to get yourself off efficiently and probably quickly too. It feels good and the release is adequate, but at this point you probably do it in the same way, every time all the time, on your back or sitting, barely moving at all. So this month why not try something different!

Step 1: Wake up your body. Before you start, spend 5 minutes moving around a little. Get the blood pumping, do some stretching or even jumping jacks.

Step 2: Masturbate with some movement. Stand up, sway, move your hips in circles, bend your knees or even do light squats while you stimulate your genitals.

Step 3: Breath. Don’t hold your breath, make sure you breathe in a rhythm, breathing more deeply and rapidly as you approach climax.

Step 4: Make some noise! No need to scream like a porn star but make some noise when you exhale, like when you go “ahhhhh” after a good shower, or a sip of great coffee.

Step 5: Make a mess. This one might apply to men more but don’t be afraid to make a mess. Too many men are reaching for the tissues before they are even done feeling all the sensation from their orgasm.

So stand up for Masturbation Month. Try some or all of these in the next weeks. What do you have to lose? If this doesn’t work for you, you can always go back to your tried and true method. But if you give it a shot, you will discover a new range of sensations you never knew existed.

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