Shades Of Kink - What's Your Take?

Shades Of Kink - What's Your Take?

by pinktrickle

Fifty Shades of Kink now sweeping the nation.

By now a good portion of the female population, and some males, globally has read one, if not all of the "Fifty Shades Of Grey" novels.


Are you one of them?

If so, how much has it affected your sex life?

Has it opened your eyes to some new bondage fantasies?

And would you/have you acted on those fantasies?

Please leave your answers below.

I Want To Buy A Sex Toy. How do I decide what to get?

I want to buy a sex toy, but I don't know the difference between a vibrator and a dildo! How do I decide what to get?

Generally speaking, vibrators are battery-operated or electrically powered devices that buzz or vibrate. They are used mainly for external stimulation, so if you're looking for clitoral titillation — which most women need to climax — a vibrator is your best bet. Some suggested types to try: "egg" or "bullet" styles, which have a speed-control lever and can be used for solo satisfaction or with your partner since they fit between the two of you; "hand-free" models that are held in place by straps that resemble a panty; or simple body massagers that you can use on your clitoris, as well as on sore muscles. (Body massagers are pretty powerful and often recommended to women trying to achieve the big O for the first time.) When choosing a vibrator, you'll want to consider the intensity of the sensation and the noise level (the softer the material, the quieter the toy).

If you want the feeling of penetration, you'll want to try a dildo, which resembles a penis, usually doesn't vibrate, and can be used vaginally or anally. (If you want to try back-door play, make sure it has a base specifically designed so it doesn't slide up too far.) When choosing a dildo, you'll want to factor length and width into your decision. And if you're looking for G-spot stimulation, try a phallic-shaped toy with a specially curved top. For the best of both worlds, check out the ever-popular Rabbit, a two-in-one toy: The swirling shaft offers the pleasure of penetration, while the buzzing "rabbit ears" stimulate your clitoris.

You can pick up your passion prop at your local sex shop. Or, if you want to be a little more private about your purchase, you'll find plenty of well-stocked online boutiques (like pinktrickle.com) that list items with pictures, descriptions, and specifics about cleaning and storage.

Some playthings pointers: Read the instructions before using. Avoid materials that may give you an allergic reaction (e.g., latex), and wash your toy with antibacterial soap and hot water before and after use and let it dry completely. If your carnal contraption is made of a porous substance (like jelly rubber or cyberskin, which are harder to clean than nonporous products like silicone), or you want to use your toy vaginally after using it for anal action, cover it with a condom each time it's used to make sure it's clean.


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Pinktrickle's Holiday Gift Guide

Welcome to pinktrickle's guide to holiday gifts for those pleasure connoisseurs on your list.

For Her

Elegance is the flagship vibrator. Its elegant and minimalist design unifies class and style. Its smooth medical-grade silicone and sleek digital control unit drives two motor on each ends delivering utmost pleasure. Elegance is splash proof, comes with gift box, charger, manual and satin pouch. GIVE THIS









Lockable vibrator case practically sell themselves-they're cute, they have an amazing price point, and they're a sexy way to keep your naughty valuables a secret from prying minds. The keyless locking system makes them perfect for multiple uses! Dimensions: L15inches x W8inches x H7inches
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The world`s first waterproof multi-speed massage glove. The Fukuoku Five Finger Massage Glove houses vibrators at the tip of each finger creating approximately 45,000 vibrations per minute at full speed. The waterproof battery compartment is in a pouch at the base of the glove. 3 AAA batteries included. GIVE THIS












This innovative lay-on vibrator stimulates the body’s external erotic hotspots with its ergonomically designed shape and small, but powerful motor. It can be used for massaging and caressing every sensitive spot and is suitable for women and men! The vibration level is adjustable so that each erotic zone can be aroused gently or intensely. Three additional vibration modes provide for a variety of different pulsating vibrations. Special features • one-touch buttons • battery operated • 8 vibration levels • 3 vibration programs • stronger, quieter, longer-lasting motor Size: 4.1 inch GIVE THIS

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For Him


COBRA libre is the toy for the discerning man. When the penis enters the toy, the smooth, soft silicone hugs it closely for thrilling stimulation. An innovative and stylish control element easily adjusts the two independent motors, offering a range of vibration possibilities never before seen. The patterns create pulsing vibrations just underneath the sensitive penis glans for mind-blowing, on-the-spot stimulation. This sporty, ergonomically designed toy promises easy handling and modern pleasure. Thanks to the CLICK ‘N’ CHARGE recharge technology, pit stops are short and efficient. The »COBRA libre« will get your motor revving quickly and is an absolute must-have!FF Texture: Soft and velvety Soft and velvety says it all: this finish is a treat to touch Special Features • effectively stimulates the most sensitive part of the penis • rechargeable • 100% waterproof • two powerful, quiet motors for unique vibration patterns • intuitive control with one touch buttons • very easy to clean • easy to handle • super soft and velvety silicone GIVE THIS





He can see himself like never before. The Fleshlight Ice offers all the same super-soft pleasures of the original Fleshlight, but with a clear sleeve color and case for enhances visual stimulation. Fleshlight Ice is available with the exclusive Crystal inner texture which has been designed to stimulate your penis with distinctive sensations all throughout. As you explore the Fleshlight Ice you'll begin to appreciate the subtle nuances each uniquely chiseled pleasure chamber has to offer. GIVE THIS










He's always dreamt of fucking a busty bitch with huge 36DD's, so what are you waiting for? 
Fuck Her Big Fat Titties until you drain every ounce of ball-juice from your cock! Big tit lovers rejoice, we have designed a perfect pair of juicy juggs built for fucking and sucking! These massive DD melons are soft, bouncy, and made to jiggle and squish with each thrust. Slide your cock between her huge cans and titty-fuck her all night long! Pinch her nipples, slap her titties, and do as you please with her perfect pair of huge hooters. Enjoy every carefully-molded, 3D detail of her bustline--from her amazing under-boob, to her sexy side-boob, to her super-realistic shoulders, every angle is eye-candy for your cock! Best of all, every inch of her supple Fanta-Flesh skin is yours to enjoy. This is the most lifelike, realistic torso masturbator ever created and a must-have for all big boob enthusiasts. With 12 lbs. of super-soft Fanta-Flesh engulfing and massaging your cock, you'll swear you have a real DD rack right in front of you any time you get horny. Dress her up in your favorite bra or bustier, put her in a wife-beater for your very own personal wet t-shirt contest, or take her in the bath or shower for some tempting ta-ta shower play. Her perky, pink nipples are always rock-hard, and she never says no to a good time! When you're done, blow a load all over her big fat titties and give her the pearl necklace she always wanted. Cleanup is a snap after the fun with Pipedream Toy Cleaner and warm water, then apply Pipedream Extreme Revive cornstarch powder to restore the masturbator to soft, like-new quality. 
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For Them

Liberator Sex Furniture - Liberator sex furniture helps you jazz up your sexual positions, while maintaining ultimate comfort. GIVE THIS

Clit Flicker and Erection enhancer cock ring has a powerful, wireless stimulator that vibrates the flickering tongue. Man wears it to maintain his erection and feels vibrations and the woman will love the vibrating tickler on each of the man's thrusts. Cell batteries included. GIVE THIS

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5 Surprising Facts About Females Jerking Off

The folks over at Pleated-Jeans put together a fun infographic of somewhat stimulating facts and stats about masturbation. However, we've whacked off their facts about male masturbation (duh, they all do it, all the time, as much as possible; yes, even when you're lying next to them and some have even died going way too far to get off -- those are the facts about male masturbation in a, er, nutshell).

Instead, for a much more stimulating conversation, we've gone ahead and banged out the more compelling and most surprising facts about female masturbation. After all, we tend to get off on our own plenty. So let's talk about it. You know you want to.

5 Surprising Facts About Females Jerking Off

Here are the facts about female masturbation, along with our conclusions about them.

1. Fact: 89% of women admit to masturbating. Our Conclusion: The other 11% will only admit to heavy petting.

2. Fact: More than 41% of people have accidentally been caught masturbating. 22.6% of women have intentionally been walked in on. Our Conclusion: Intentionally? Oh, I get it -- they're the martyr-y ones who constantly balk, "If I want something done, I have to do it myself!"

3. Fact: 4 out of 10 women prefer masturbation over sex. Our Conclusion: Does this coincide with the finding that 40% of men want their women to have liposuction? Well, screw you, @ssholes. Who needs you anyway?

4. Fact: Studies suggest masturbation may be good for you. Cervical infections might be reduced with frequent personal stimulation. Our Conclusion: As if we needed another reason.

5. Fact: Female porcupines have been witnessed using wooden sticks to masturbate. Our Conclusion: What did you expect? Porcupine dildos are pretty hard to come by.

Which of these female masturbation facts do you find most shocking?

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Our orgasms are different -- men and women's

How to Have an Orgasm Like a Man

Our orgasms are different -- men and women's -- but there are similarities when it comes to our pleasure and men aren't the only ones to ejaculate. Nope. They're not. The first time I tried to female ejaculate I was alone with a mirror and a long, curved hard plastic sex toy. I spent a time with myself and my toy, until finally I felt this feeling of fullness. That's when I pulled the toy out and watched in the mirror. To my surprise, and delight, in the next few moments a clear, wet spurt of fluid landed at least two inches from where I was actually laying.

If you haven't already noticed, I'm a TMI girl. Yes, I'm an ejaculator. I don't have to ejaculate to have an orgasm though. And I never ejaculate as much as those porn stars do on camera, but more on that to come.

First, let's get down to what is, and what isn't, female ejaculate. True female ejaculate is not urine, it's actually fluid from the skene's glands, or female prostate. To GPS the skene's glands, look on either side of the urethra. Or don't look. The glands are really small, just like the urethral opening.

Female ejaculate contains certain things you don't find in urine, like glucose, fructose, prostatic acid phosphatase, and PSA. These are also things found in male prostatic fluid. Genuine female ejaculate, whether it squirts, spurts or dribbles, is no more than teaspoon in volume. That wet spot on the bed? That could be female ejaculate. The buckets of liquid certain porn performers seem to produce? That's not usually genuine female ejaculate, even if it ejaculates out of her body.

I learned the trick to producing copious amounts of ejaculate when working on my own educational DVD series. I was casting for a segment on the subject, so I googled female ejaculation. That's when Cytherea’s name popped up. She’s a porn star known for squirting (another popular term used to reference ejaculation). I was impressed with her ejaculatory resume, so I hired her to ejaculate for my movie too.

Cytherea ejaculated ... a lot. And she drank a lot of water, in fact, she was never without a water bottle on set. It seems the key to shooting out buckets of clear fluid is staying hydrated. The more hydrated she was, the more she would ejaculate.

In order to learn to ejaculate, get comfortable and get aroused, and then start exploring inside your vagina. To make it happen, you'll need to massage the urethral sponge, aka G-spot. That means you (or someone/something you trust) will need to go inside your vagina. Not super far in, since the G-spot is usually towards the entrance of the vagina. With arousal, the G-spot feels like a Ruffles potato chip (think ridges) or the roof of your mouth.

Since we're massaging the urethral sponge, but because we never want anything to go into our urethral openings, ouch, we rub the top wall of the vagina, and not the bottom wall of the urethra. We need to use some pressure.The harder and longer you rub, the more likely the urge to expel fluid will become. Like a sponge under water, the urethral sponge fills with fluid and feels noticeably denser before ejaculation.

For those who can't figure out if they like G-spot stimulation, or what the big deal is, remember, the G-spot is only one club on the strip. There are lots of other places to party for pleasure. I generally ejaculate if stimulated farther back, along the top wall of the vagina. That's where you'll come in contact with other fabulous spots on the sponge. One in particular, and one used during female ejaculation, is called the A-spot. The A-spot has the same feelings as the G-spot, but it's closer to the cervix than it is to the entrance of the vagina.

If you continue to rub deep enough, hard enough or long enough, that’s when you can produce female ejaculate. And if you begin to rub deep and hard and it feels like it's time to pee, then you're moving in the right direction. (Pee before you start to avoid feeling embarrassed by this sensation.) While all of this is going on inside of you, use your pelvic floor muscles to tighten around the finger, toy or penis for added build-up and even more fireworks during expulsion.

Here's the clencher. When I want to ejaculate, I have to push out. When we think about orgasm, women tend to pull in. We usually think about tightening our genitals and squeezing up, but in order to ejaculate, I have to bear down and push out whatever is inside of me.

You don't have to ejaculate to have amazing orgasms. Learning to ejaculate is a commitment, and if you choose to commit, then once you learn, you'll understand your body even better than you ever imagined. And yes, I do believe all women can learn to ejaculate, but I don't think all women need to or want to. It's not always a satisfying orgasm, and sometimes it's a big mess. Still, I like that I do it.

Does learning to ejaculate interest you? Have you done it before?

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About the author Jamye Waxman M.Ed is a sex educator and writer who loves to cuddle. She believes that intimacy takes work but should be fun, and communication is the key. She's also a TMI kind of girl.

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“The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform”

Sex Toys

“The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform”

Sex toys are widely used for increasing sexual pleasure and come in innumerable forms -- starting with the humble cucumber and ranging to sophisticated machinery. Some different types of sex toys are vibrators, anal beads, dildos and prostate massagers. Sex toys appear to have played a part in human history, as evidenced by ancient Greek depictions of dildo-shaped devices in art, literature and artifacts. Contemporary sex toys are not made from clay, but rather rubber, plastic, latex, glass, metal, and sometimes wood. The sex toys may be electronic, like a vibrator, or a static object that is manipulated by the user, like a butt plug. Sex toys can be purchased online, with a massive range available to suit almost every taste. They come in a variety of colors, shapes and sizes, with widely varying degrees of quality. Generally speaking, like everything else in this world, quality costs more and is worth it. Sex toys are also available in adult stores, though the range is usually less extensive due to stocking costs. Proper hygiene, cleaning, care and maintenance procedures need to be adhered to when using sex toys, especially if you are sharing with a partner. Sex Toys on AM Askmen.com readers will no doubt have encountered sexual aides and sex toys at some stage in their lives, especially with the rise of the internet as a massive sexual resource in recent years. Trying one, however, is a different story. There has been much talk about women’s use of vibrators and dildos, with some frowning upon them for being some kind of substitute for a real penis (and the attached man). These ideas have been deemed faulty by sexologists, who are all for sex toys -- there are so many sexual issues and problems in humankind that any help a person can get is good help. There is a huge variety of sex toys designed especially for men, some sex toys are designed for women, and some are made for men and women to share. The end result is, ideally, a better sex life: more frequent and better orgasms, higher arousal, more foreplay (debatable) and a bit of adventure to spruce things up. Read more at www.askmen.com