How To Ride Your Vibrator Like A Pro

HOW TO USE YOUR TANTUS SUCTION CUP

All too many times we find ourselves looking for simple solutions to make things in our lives easier - especially when it comes to sex! Things should feel great, be safe, and be simple for us to get to climax. Queue in the Tantus Suction Cup!  Some of you may not have even known that we at Tantus sell a suction cup… Oh, but we do! With this simple 1-2-3- guide in How to Use your Tantus Suction Cup, you’ll be able to stick that sweet little ray of sunshine anywhere you please, so that you can stop focusing on the work, and start focusing on the pleasure.

1. GET YOUR HANDS ON A TANTUS VIBRATOR & SUCTION CUP

The Suction Cup is completely compatible with any Tantus Vibrator, so we’re going to need these two things before we can start!

2. PUT IT WHERE YOU WANT IT

Once you’ve got your vibrator and suction cup, you’re going to need to find your top destination spot on where you want to put that baby! Now remember, we’re trying to take the work out of the entire process, so you can focus on YOU.

Some top recommended spots would be:

• On the Shower Wall
• On the Edge of the Tub
• On the Floor
• On the Kitchen Counter

Some of us are more adventurous than others, so by all means if outside in the elements is your preferred place to be, go for it! Wherever your favorite place is, just make sure that you can get the right positioning to give yourself the best time you’ve had since Brad Pitt took his shirt off in Fight Club.

3. PUT THE PIECES TOGETHER

Every Tantus Vibrator comes with a removable bullet vibe. This is great, because it gives you the option of:

• Using a different vibrator
• Replacing your vibrator if it dies, (as opposed to the whole toy)
• Using your Tantus Vibrator as a Dildo
• Lastly, Using the Tantus Suction Cup to PUT IT WHERE YOU WANT IT

Just simply stick that bad mammajamma where you want it, press down firmly on the bottom of the Suction Cup to your preferred surface and push that together with your Tantus vibrator and…Voila! You’re all set to get ridin!

Sex Ed: Women vs. Men Fantasy Types

Who fantasizes about what—and why.

By Jay Dixit

Everyone knows the usual scenarios—the mysterious stranger, the threesome, meeting and making love to George Clooney. But sexual fantasies are more varied than we imagine, says Wendy Maltz, a sex therapist and author of Private Thoughts: Exploring the Power of Women's Sexual Fantasies.

In scripted fantasies—which we conjure while having sex or daydreaming, and which involve characters and follow a narrative—women mostly cast themselves in six roles, found Maltz: 

1. The Pretty Maiden (object of another's desire) 
2. The Victim (object of humiliation or violence) 
3. The Wild Woman (initiator of sex) 
4. The Dominatrix (who exerts power over others) 
5. The Voyeur (who watches others having sex) 
6. The Beloved (who intimately connects with a lover of equal power)

Unscripted fantasies are more fleeting—often triggered by objects in our environment—and focus on images or sensations rather than characters or a traditional storyline. Among women, these often portray the building and releasing of tension—mimicking the sexual response cycle itself—and involve images not usually considered sexual, such as horses galloping, flowers blossoming and releasing perfume, trains cresting hills, or storm clouds gathering and then spilling their water. Men have abstract fantasies too. One man imagined his wife was a diamond, and he a ray of light shining into her.

Fantasies reflect the stimuli we're exposed to during our sexual awakening, says Maltz, the way drug addicts learn to associate the stimuli present when they get high—shot glasses, rock music, drug paraphernalia—with pleasure itself. One subject experienced her first orgasm when jumping into a swimming pool, then found her fantasies as an adult all involved water. A girl who first experienced sensual feelings on a swing set might have kinesthetic fantasies. A boy who gets his first erection watching a girl brush her hair might have fantasies involving hair.

Our fantasies also reflect our anxieties, says Michael Bader, author of Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies. A woman insecure about her attractiveness may fantasize about driving men crazy with desire—say, inducing a police officer, president, or priest to step out of his normal role—or of having sex while men watch. A woman worried she's too much for a man may fantasize about being overpowered. As one female subject put it, "My desire is like a wave crashing on the shore. I don't want to worry about whether the shore can take it."

Powerful men, meanwhile, may fantasize about relinquishing that power and being dominated. Studies show men are actually more aroused than women by fantasies of being restrained, dominated, or spanked, says Bader. As sex researcher Nancy Friday put it in Men In Love, the secret wish of men is "to be done to." 

MALE FANTASY

• Graphic and visual
• Impersonal relationship dynamics; multiple or interchangeable partners.
• Focus more on body parts and explicit sex

FEMALE FANTASY

• Multisensory, including touch
• Romantic situations, emotional involvement; think the soft-focus mood-lighting of perfume ads
• Can be abstract, like flowers blossoming.

What are some of the things you fantasize about?

How To Buy Her A Sex Toy

Silicon, rubber, metal, or glass

You don’t want to go overboard with the first sex toy; keep this one simple, subtle and functional. Silicon and rubber have the most life-like feel to them and are always a good choice. They are also very safe, and warm up under a hot tap easily.

Metal is a bad choice because it is quite cold to start off with, though its firmness may be the selling point. Metal can look quite attractive too, and since sex toys aren’t the most gorgeous things on earth, it’s a plus if they’re not ugly.There are some very beautiful glass dildos available. Glass offers a very smooth sensation, and can be cooled or heated to give her some variety. Opting for the "Joe-blow average" toy is your best bet. Stick to the basics. If in doubt, go with silicon. Silicon is neither too soft nor too hard and is durable and hygienic, making it an excellent choice for sex toys. 

Quality vs. cost

Don’t scrimp and save on this toy because you want quality. Having a toy not work or fall to bits at the crucial moment is going to make you look like a cheapie — a mortal sin in chick-talk! 

Presenting it to her

There are a number of ways to do this. If you want it to be a surprise gift, the classiest thing you can do is have it wrapped and posted straight to her with a sexy note. If you want to use it with her, you could put it under the pillow and give it to her on the spur of the moment, though this approach could have negative consequences if, for some reason, she has a problem with your purchase.  If you have any doubt about the reception you will receive, opt for the safety of the shore: Warn her, and give it to her in a non-sexual situation so she doesn’t feel pressured or uncomfortable. Make it funny or sexy — in other words, make it special in some way. It is highly likely that upon receiving your thoughtful and sexy gift, she will not be able to stop smiling and giggling.  

She'll turn it on and get turned on

Buying your girlfriend a sex toy doesn’t have to be a traumatizing experience. Finding a good shop, whether online or downtown, makes life a lot easier: The staff will be educated, the packaging will be discreet and the toy will go the distance and handle the punishment dished out to it. It takes balls for a man to buy his woman a sex toy without her input, so give yourself a pat on the back for being so brave and courageous — and let her enjoy the fruits of your labor.

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Some Documented Health Benefits Of Masturbation:

Health Benefits for Men

— Improving his immune system’s functioning.

— Building his resistance to prostate gland infection.

— Making for a healthier prostate.

Health Benefits for Women

— Building her resistance to yeast infections.

— Combating pre-menstrual tension and other physical conditions associated with their menstrual cycles, like cramps.

— Relieving painful menstruation by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region. This will also reduce pelvic cramping and related backaches.

— Relieving chronic back pain and increasing her threshold for pain.

Health Benefits for Both Sexes

— The safest kind of sex, keeping you free of sexually transmitted infections.

— A great form of stress relief.

— A mood booster in releasing endorphins.

— A natural sleep sedative.

— A mechanism for building stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to better sex.

— A natural energetic pick-me-up.

For couples who masturbate on occasion or regularly, sex with yourself can:

— Be empowering, especially by helping you to feel better about your body, genitals and sexual response.

— Deliver some of your most intense orgasms ever, which you’ll now know how to recreate with that special someone!

— Increase your sexual awareness, giving you the opportunity to discover what turns you on – the sensations and movements that work best to give you the greatest of sexual gratification.

— Have the potential to enhance your sex life in general, boosting your sexual confidence and turning you into a better lover.

— Get you or your partner off the hook if neither is available or not in the mood.

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A Girl’s Guide To Masturbation: Touch Thyself

Masturbation. Couldn’t someone think of a cooler term to describe getting yourself off? It sounds so … mechanical.

Regardless of the actual word, I masturbate. Yeah, I said it. And sadly, most girls really won’t throw it out there like that. For some reason guys can just talk about jerking off as if it’s part of their morning routine — “I brushed my teeth, took a shower, wacked off, got dressed and went to class.” Um, that never happens if you’re a girl. It’s more like, “I’m heading to bed early tonight” a.k.a. “I’m horny and I have a date with my vibrator.” Sure, my friends and I have had that conversation where you let the cat out of the bag, and they all admit it too. But there’s always that friend who’s like, “Guys, that’s gross, I don’t do that.”

Yeah, right! How the hell have you never touched yourself? It’s part of being a girl; it’s only natural to explore your body. And if you want to enjoy sex, you should seriously learn what turns you on.

So for all of you that are in denial of your female anatomy and afraid of getting a little “dirty,” I found a great article to help you out. Just read it. Give yourself an orgasm and learn what you’ve been missing.

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Guest Blog Review Of Waterproof Wallbanger Deluxe by @TrinaWitch

Welcome to my first guest post on Pinktrickle's  blog. I am a long time fan of her sex toy website, it never fails to arouse me every time I visit, and I follow her on twitter @pinktrickle .

I volunteered to test drive  Waterproof Wallbanger Deluxe and review it.





First, in case I didn't say it already... a big THANK YOU to Pinktrickle!!!!

OK, a couple of downsides: 
1) no on off switch, so if you want to use it in the tub & you don't live alone, make sure everyone else is busy...
2) no adjustable speed....

Despite those two downsides, it was absolutely a joy to play with! 


I'm falling in love with these flexible, softer types of vibrators for sure! The shaft was very comfortable, it could even be a bit bigger for me, but that's just my opinion :) 


I'm usually a 4-5 time a day girl and sometimes it does take a bit to get me off, but the first time with this little pink pleasure was fabulous, I may have lasted 2 whole minutes! 


Very very enjoyable. Definitely a keeper :) Perfect for a beginner or sex toy novice.


You can follow @TrinaWitch on twitter.

Design Within Cute - This Month's Pink Pick

Design Within Cute

by Tami, Team Trickle

This month’s featured product is the Yooo. 

What is it?

It’s a cute little bubble of joy. It delights more than just the visual senses, but also your sexual senses. 

The bright colored spheres bring your pleasure zone alive.

Who would have thought that 3 little balls could be so much FUN?

The new, stylish, futuristic lay-on vibrator » Yooo « is fantastically awesome.

Order yours today from pinktrickle and use the code » SAVE5 « at checkout for trying this month’s featured product.

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Packing Sexy, Packing Smart For The Holidays

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Packing Sexy, Packing Smart

If you can afford to fly somewhere this month to either increase or decrease the distance from you and your family now is the time to plan some of your packing. I'm not talking about which sweater to pack for your planned ugly holiday sweater party. I'm talking about sex toys, which, if you're packing to survive, should be something you've already thought of.

Unless you're heading out early, and your destination has a good sex shop, bringing even a small toy, a minor sexual distraction, can be a good way of taking care of yourself during what for most of us is a stressful time.

I travel with sex toys professionally, and I do it a lot. And over the years I've developed some of my own tricks, and picked up others from fellow travelers who are prone to over sharing on cross country flights once they find out what I do. And as a holiday gift, I share these tips with you.

Reader Stories: Tips for Discreet Sex Toy Airplane Trave

Read More - Vibes on a Plane and other Sex Toy Travel Tips

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Pinktrickle's Holiday Gift Guide

Welcome to pinktrickle's guide to holiday gifts for those pleasure connoisseurs on your list.

For Her

Elegance is the flagship vibrator. Its elegant and minimalist design unifies class and style. Its smooth medical-grade silicone and sleek digital control unit drives two motor on each ends delivering utmost pleasure. Elegance is splash proof, comes with gift box, charger, manual and satin pouch. GIVE THIS









Lockable vibrator case practically sell themselves-they're cute, they have an amazing price point, and they're a sexy way to keep your naughty valuables a secret from prying minds. The keyless locking system makes them perfect for multiple uses! Dimensions: L15inches x W8inches x H7inches
GIVE THIS










The world`s first waterproof multi-speed massage glove. The Fukuoku Five Finger Massage Glove houses vibrators at the tip of each finger creating approximately 45,000 vibrations per minute at full speed. The waterproof battery compartment is in a pouch at the base of the glove. 3 AAA batteries included. GIVE THIS












This innovative lay-on vibrator stimulates the body’s external erotic hotspots with its ergonomically designed shape and small, but powerful motor. It can be used for massaging and caressing every sensitive spot and is suitable for women and men! The vibration level is adjustable so that each erotic zone can be aroused gently or intensely. Three additional vibration modes provide for a variety of different pulsating vibrations. Special features • one-touch buttons • battery operated • 8 vibration levels • 3 vibration programs • stronger, quieter, longer-lasting motor Size: 4.1 inch GIVE THIS

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For Him


COBRA libre is the toy for the discerning man. When the penis enters the toy, the smooth, soft silicone hugs it closely for thrilling stimulation. An innovative and stylish control element easily adjusts the two independent motors, offering a range of vibration possibilities never before seen. The patterns create pulsing vibrations just underneath the sensitive penis glans for mind-blowing, on-the-spot stimulation. This sporty, ergonomically designed toy promises easy handling and modern pleasure. Thanks to the CLICK ‘N’ CHARGE recharge technology, pit stops are short and efficient. The »COBRA libre« will get your motor revving quickly and is an absolute must-have!FF Texture: Soft and velvety Soft and velvety says it all: this finish is a treat to touch Special Features • effectively stimulates the most sensitive part of the penis • rechargeable • 100% waterproof • two powerful, quiet motors for unique vibration patterns • intuitive control with one touch buttons • very easy to clean • easy to handle • super soft and velvety silicone GIVE THIS





He can see himself like never before. The Fleshlight Ice offers all the same super-soft pleasures of the original Fleshlight, but with a clear sleeve color and case for enhances visual stimulation. Fleshlight Ice is available with the exclusive Crystal inner texture which has been designed to stimulate your penis with distinctive sensations all throughout. As you explore the Fleshlight Ice you'll begin to appreciate the subtle nuances each uniquely chiseled pleasure chamber has to offer. GIVE THIS










He's always dreamt of fucking a busty bitch with huge 36DD's, so what are you waiting for? 
Fuck Her Big Fat Titties until you drain every ounce of ball-juice from your cock! Big tit lovers rejoice, we have designed a perfect pair of juicy juggs built for fucking and sucking! These massive DD melons are soft, bouncy, and made to jiggle and squish with each thrust. Slide your cock between her huge cans and titty-fuck her all night long! Pinch her nipples, slap her titties, and do as you please with her perfect pair of huge hooters. Enjoy every carefully-molded, 3D detail of her bustline--from her amazing under-boob, to her sexy side-boob, to her super-realistic shoulders, every angle is eye-candy for your cock! Best of all, every inch of her supple Fanta-Flesh skin is yours to enjoy. This is the most lifelike, realistic torso masturbator ever created and a must-have for all big boob enthusiasts. With 12 lbs. of super-soft Fanta-Flesh engulfing and massaging your cock, you'll swear you have a real DD rack right in front of you any time you get horny. Dress her up in your favorite bra or bustier, put her in a wife-beater for your very own personal wet t-shirt contest, or take her in the bath or shower for some tempting ta-ta shower play. Her perky, pink nipples are always rock-hard, and she never says no to a good time! When you're done, blow a load all over her big fat titties and give her the pearl necklace she always wanted. Cleanup is a snap after the fun with Pipedream Toy Cleaner and warm water, then apply Pipedream Extreme Revive cornstarch powder to restore the masturbator to soft, like-new quality. 
GIVE THIS

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For Them

Liberator Sex Furniture - Liberator sex furniture helps you jazz up your sexual positions, while maintaining ultimate comfort. GIVE THIS

Clit Flicker and Erection enhancer cock ring has a powerful, wireless stimulator that vibrates the flickering tongue. Man wears it to maintain his erection and feels vibrations and the woman will love the vibrating tickler on each of the man's thrusts. Cell batteries included. GIVE THIS

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THIS YEAR GIVE THE GIFT OF PLEASURE

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More Positive Than Negative Effects of Masturbation.

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Effects of Masturbation

Surprisingly little research attention has been paid to the specific effects of masturbation. The history of masturbation is littered with moral condemnation and scientific inaccuracies regarding its negative effects but thankfully there finally seems to be medical agreement that masturbation is a healthy form of sexual expression, and one with more positive than negative effects. Still many of us believe the masturbation myths we are raised with, which makes it worthwhile to learn the truth about the effects of masturbation on the body and the mind.

Masturbation can increase self-knowledge:

Sex educators don’t call masturbation the cornerstone of sexual health for nothing. Masturbation is the first, safest, and best way to get to know how your sexual body works. You can learn what turns you on and what doesn’t. You can learn how to give yourself sexual pleasure in a hurry, or when you’ve got nothing but time. As an educational tool, masturbation is better than any textbook, video or website you’ll ever read (that includes this one!).

Masturbation can lead to self-discovery:

Even if you know how to get the job done, masturbatorally speaking, your capacity to feel sexual pleasure is limitless and masturbation is a great way to find new functions for familiar parts. Often when we’re having sex with a partner we might be too self-conscious, shy, or otherwise distracted to pay close attention to what’s happening in our own body. Masturbation, when you’re doing it by yourself, allows you to focus on the subtlety of your own sexual response , and possibly discover things you hadn’t previously realized were part of your sexuality.

Masturbation is nature’s sleep aid:

While thinking about sex might keep you up at night having it, including masturbation, is a great way to deal with insomnia. In a 2000 study of U.S. women, 32% said that in the past three months they masturbated as a way to fall asleep. Whether it’s because of the hormones and endorphins released following orgasm, the benefits of clearing your head, or the mini cardio workout, masturbation that ends in orgasm is a great way to get to sleep without pills, television, or counting sheep.

Masturbation provides pain relief:

Whether you’re experiencing temporary or chronic pain from sore joints, headaches, menstrual cramps, or other causes, masturbation and orgasm can, in some cases, provide natural pain relief. While we don’t know exactly why, research has documented arousal and orgasm resulting in reduced pain thresholds. It’s worth pointing out that for some conditions (like migraine headaches ) orgasm can either reduce the pain or increase it.

Masturbation is a great stress reliever:

Several studies have documented the relaxation effects of masturbation induced orgasm. Aside from the physical benefits, masturbation, when you’re doing it right, is all about “you time” and taking time to focus on yourself is a great way to break up the stress of a busy life. Particularly when used with sexual fantasy, masturbation can be a great escape, a way to let off some steam, and while masturbation alone might not be enough to deal with all the stress in your life, it’s a healthy, free, and non-pharmaceutical tool right at your fingertips (or other body part or sex toy, as the case may be).

Masturbation may offer cancer prevention:

Two recent studies found a link between the number of times a man ejaculates and the likelihood of getting prostate cancer. The prostate gland produces and stores seminal fluid and the fluid can build up in the prostate if a man goes a long time without ejaculating. This build up isn’t always a problem, but in the studies men who ejaculate more were less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer. Another researcher has proposed a theory that orgasm may offer some protective effect against breast cancer via oxytocin released at orgasm.

Sources: Cornog, M. The Big Book of Masturbation San Francisco: Down There Press, 2003. Komisaruk, B., Beyer-Flores, C., and Whipple, B. The Science of Orgasm Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press, 2006. Read more at sexuality.about.com

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What's the Best Way to Travel Discreetly with Your Sex Toys?

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Readers Respond: What's the Best Way to Travel Discreetly with Your Sex Toys?

From the article: Vibrators on an Airplane and Other Sex Toy Travel Tips

Some sex toy travelers only have themselves to blame (like the guy who told officials his penis pump was a bomb). But more often, unfeeling, confused or embarrassed security personnel are at fault when your trip with sex toys goes bad. There are things you can do to make sure taking your vibrator or sex toy with you on a flight won't result in losing your toy -- or your privacy. Share your stories -- good, bad and ugly -- of traveling with your sex toys. Share Your Stories

Carry-On Is the Way to Go

I am in direct sales of adult bedroom toys and I often travel to do in-home parties and always carry my demo on so as not to have my bag "lost". As I instruct my customers, I always take the batteries out (it prolongs the life of the toy and the batteries) before going through the security screening. I was once told by a former TSA agent (who is now a business partner) that with the batteries in, it looks like the barrel of a loaded gun. I haven't had my bags searched since. —Guest The Passion Prencess

Sex Toys Travel to Saudi Arabia

I have been told by a sex toy trader in Saudi Arabia that Gel dildos don't appear in the luggage detection system at airports. But the best thing I usually do is put dildos and other small vibrators in my hand bag at the US airport. In the plane before landing at the Saudi airport I put them in my pocket. They don't search persons only luggage. —Guest Sami

My experience with sex toy travel

On two occasions I have had sex toys cut to pieces and destroyed by the TSA. In your carry on they will get pulled out and checked by the inspectors, but they do it in front of you, and I've never had a toy taken or destroyed yet from my carry on. I'm not sure that there is a best way to discreetly travel with toys. —sekso

Security Scanner

I was patiently waiting for my carry-on luggage (with my favorite dildo inside) to pass through the scanners and looked back to see one male TSA employee call over his friends to look at the screen. I'll never forget overhearing his comment "Now, that's what I call a joystick!" I merely rolled my eyes and tried to act nonchalant to hide my annoyance. —sassycat5

Sex toys in Muslim/Arab countries.

I am an American woman and travel often to Muslim countries.I am actually in Kuwait as I type this. Everything that was said about traveling with toys is correct but, it needs to be said that bringing sex toys into most of these particular countries (Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Iraq, Iran, ect...) is illegal and is also illegal to own them or have them in your possession. Just wanted to say that since I am also a sex toy reviewer and sex blogger and hate to travel without some of my favorite toys. Better to be safe (leaving them at home if you are going to one of these countries)than have them confiscated or worse, find yourself in trouble with the legal authorities. —ThePinkPoppet

Battery operated toys...

After my wife's quick thinking explaining a buzzing suitcase as "must be the electric toothbrush" to my mother, I remembered an old Boy Scout trick, used to keep flashlights from turning on in your backpack. Take a small strip of cardstock or other heavy paper, and slip it between the terminal and battery. This will prevent electrical contact from being made, and keep you from having to dig around to find the batteries when you need them, because they're still right there in the toy. —Guest a nonny moose

Put the 10' Silicone in your carry on!

I want to challenge your advice above to check your larger silicone toys. Every time I have checked a large silicone toy my bag has been pulled for hand screening. Every time. On two occasions I have had the toys cut to pieces and destroyed by the TSA. Sure in your carry on they will get pulled out and checked by the inspectors, but they do it in front of you, and I've never had a toy taken or destroyed yet from my carry on. I'm not sure that there is a best way to discreetly travel with toys - I think keeping your toys with you when possible (check hand cuffs and yes, large metal toys) and being able to talk about them with confidence when asked is a far better way of making sure they arrive with you and ready for use at your destination. —Guest travelling tranny Read more at sexuality.about.com

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