Who says you can't be a sexually aggressive woman and still get ahead?

Jennifer Gearey, the new director of communications for Defence Minister Peter MacKay, wrote sex advice columns. (Twitter)

From the article Jennifer Gearey Was Sex Advice Columnist Before Joining Peter MacKay's Staff we really liked the following: 

Two sex advice columns she wrote in 2007 caught our eye.

"How to Make Her ‘O-My’! In Sex Easy Steps" was published in Urban Male Magazine (UMM) in the fall of 2007.

That year, she also wrote "Rubbing Your Man the Right Way." The piece, which was published in Bobbi magazine, includes tips on how to "blow your partner away", including enjoying "enjoy your man like a damn good ice cream cone with a mouth watering cherry that you keep going back for more of."

When it comes to advice for men, though, Gearey, a mother of three who is now married to MacKay’s former chief of staff, John MacDonell, shares tips on:

– Masturbation: "If you really want to spoil her, treat your hunney to a special new sex toy — and don’t feel threatened, these playthings will never replace your studly self."

– Talking dirty: "During the course of a day, call or email your partner and tell her all the things you want to do to her when you get home. Build up her sexual expectations and when you finally see her there will be little time for anything other than her warm jeans pressed up against you and her nails running eagerly down your back."

– Touching your woman: "Be gentle, start with her erogenous zones — kiss her neck, nibble at her thigh, or take a shower together and put some kink under the water by offering a shave à la Brazilian perhaps."

– And what to do post-sex: “Most girls don’t need to be cradled after a romp in the hay, that’s a misconception. Like you, we could probably go for a three-tower falafel sandwich and perhaps even a snooze.”