Ladies, Is Two Minutes enough?

 

I can only last for two minutes during sex

Dear Coleen,

I’m 28, my partner is 22 and we have three children. We’ve been together for three years and have had quite a good sex life. I’ve never lasted that long in bed, though, and now it’s the best part of two minutes.

My partner doesn’t say anything but I’m worried it will ruin our relationship. Do you have any tips for lasting longer during sex? I don’t want to lose her.

Coleen

says..

If your partner hasn’t said anything then I don’t think you have to worry about her leaving you. Stop putting extra pressure on yourself.

Secondly, I’ve heard that between two and five minutes is actually quite normal.

Why not ask your partner if there’s anything she’d like you to try? Changing the position you have sex in might help. A lot of men say they last longer when their partner’s on top, for example.

You could also try tantric sex. When you make love, reach the point when you’re almost about to ejaculate, then stop. Do this a few times before climaxing. Many men say this trains them to last longer.

On another note, I know lots of busy, stressed mums who’d be happy with two minutes. I always say to Ray, if he can squeeze it in during an ad break on the telly, then I’m happy with that! Read more at www.mirror.co.uk

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